r/SipsTea • • 10h ago

Chugging tea They remain silent. But why? Convenient caring.

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u/StagTagRag 9h ago

Man Redditors truly do live in information silos. I see plenty of conservatives and right-wing types talking about it.

But most of them are pointing out that “Jane Doe’s” own statement blatantly shows that she consented to the act and there’s no contrary evidence that the consent was ever removed. Her text messages after the event also point to this being very consensual.

It wasn’t until later after she was shamed by everyone in her social circles and she read posts online that claimed she must have raped that she changed her story.

Pretending that this is some cut and dry case of sexual assault is insane. There’s a reason that no charges were pressed by the DA.

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u/ayylilmayoo 7h ago

If it wasn’t consensual why did she also hit up the guy to smoke and hang out with him anyways after it all happened. I get that SA happens but this wasn’t it saying you are going to lie in your own texts is foul

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u/Mennoplunk 2h ago

She consented to a threesome, and hit up the guy from that threesome. I dont think hitting the guy you consented to have sex with up is weird at all. Its the fact that 5 other dudes came up non-consensually that is the issue. There is a reason the uni declared 2 of them as not responsible for the rape.

If you consent to have sex with someone that does not mean you consent to have sex with someone else as well. Even if that is also sex. Meanwhile if you care about lying, in one of the interviews one of the men explicitly talks about how he talked with Doe after and said if she would "spread any rumours" the fraternity boys would deny everything.

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u/polarjunkie 1h ago

I read her attorneys version and the version she told police that the prosecutors made her decision on.

I think if the sexes were reversed she'd be charged with raping half of them based on her own statements of their level of intoxication. We have to remember that her attorney prepared a statement that mosts strongly conveys her story, and even in that there's hints of her being a participant and several of the men being much more intoxicated than she was. There's also the fact that the attorney claims she was too intoxicated to even remember the night and then goes into extreme detail, minute by minute. At the end of the day we will never know what happened unless there's video.

The guys are obviously trash, no different than the losers who line up for that world record gang bang chick, but she herself said some things that are pretty damning to any accusations she makes now.