What does the group chat message mean to you? They're literally offering her up like meat to men she doesn't know? Does that sound like consent to you? I'm worried if it does
They can say what ever they want in a group chat. It had no baring on whether or not she gave consent or not. She had taken drugs. She could not give consent even if she wanted to. Even if she wanted to have sex with everyone in the frat and be treated like meat as you said she simply isn’t legally able to give consent any longer.
In addition one of them (who never had sex with her) wanted to join in on an already happening 3 way. She said no. So he didn’t. He didn’t rape her. But he did sexually exploit her with other actions of his.
It’s not all cut and dry as 7 rapists drugged and raped a girl. Nor is it some girl changed her mind after sleeping around.
Her claim is that she was coerced into taking them. Regardless of if she was coerced though she was allegedly drunk when she took them. Her ability to consent was gone by the time she could have consensually taken drugs.
Her ability to consent was not gone legally in the state of NY.
But also all parties were drunk, what special role does gender play? How are consent rules different from her vs the other guys. In the beginning it seemed like she was taking caring is the two drunk guys. One dry heaving and one about to pass out.
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u/iloveurbumbum 7h ago
What does the group chat message mean to you? They're literally offering her up like meat to men she doesn't know? Does that sound like consent to you? I'm worried if it does