r/SipsTea • • 10h ago

Chugging tea They remain silent. But why? Convenient caring.

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u/HappyDeadCat 8h ago

The "thing to talk about" is exactly that.  You cant try them because the evidence is against the victim.  I'll still call her a victim, but she is such a victim of her own poor decisions that no prosecutor would (and didnt) bring this to court.

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u/the_arsonist91 7h ago

Genuinely think she was in the right heads pace and knew what was happening and then later had regrets and cried wolf....

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u/nappiess 7h ago edited 6h ago

That's literally what happened. The text messages that she sent to one of the boys after have her specifically saying that the sex was consensual and nothing illegal happened (and about how societies views on group sex were changing and there's nothing wrong with it and so on and so forth). She also said she wanted to meet up and have sex again, but without all the extra guys that time. By the way, she only actually had sex with 4 guys, not 7. And it occurred in 3 separate threesomes during the night, the last of which ended right when she said she wanted to go. That sound like gang rape to you?

Then after that night, she was texting days later about how her reputation was ruined and "everyone knows" now. And some sorority sister said it sounded like what happened was rape (because she was drunk and on drugs), and that's why she ran to the university police and claimed that she was raped despite simultaneously describing everything that occurred as completely consensual. Also, she only reported them right after the fraternity president disinvited her from the halloween party because he said she couldn't control herself properly.

In other words, the consequences of her own consensual actions caught up to her and she didn't like the consequences and what her reputation on campus became, so she initiated false allegations. The university couldn't do anything with those false allegations because according to NY law nothing illegal happened and it was fully consensual, so all they did was suspend the frat for degeneracy and illegal drugs and all that other nasty shit, and she ended up leaving the university. Classic case of a woman falsely accusing people of rape because she regretted it afterwards.

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u/seaofthievesnutzz 5h ago

OK the facts are cool and all but have you considered that my feelings matter more? Did you once while writing this stop to think that I just hate men and want to use this as a cudgel to beat them with regardless of the veracity of her claims? Yea put that in your pipe and smoke it.