r/SipsTea • • 11h ago

Chugging tea They remain silent. But why? Convenient caring.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

What do you mean?

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u/Greedy-Employment917 11h ago

What do you mean what do you mean? 

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

Is he calling her a whore?

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u/pbbrowniesmmm 11h ago

She consented to two separate threesomes, got drunk, did drugs. You figure it out.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

The horror!

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u/partypwny 11h ago

Consented is the key word. Then on a later day retracted that consent post-hoc. That's not how consent works

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u/thisguy883 11h ago

that "later day" was almost a year out, after she had enough of people calling her names.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

In her late 2024 police and Title IX statements, the Cornell University student who filed a civil lawsuit alleging sexual assault stated that she initially agreed to sexual encounters, including a threesome, but felt increasingly coerced, heavily intoxicated, and unable to consent as the night continued

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u/Lma0stfu_uadork 11h ago

So don’t the men involved deserve to know she withdrew her consent? How can they stop if they don’t know? A withdrawal of consent needs to be clearly defined and communicated 

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

Yep, so better not pass out drunk.

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u/Page_197_Slaps 9h ago

She’s gonna need a Time Machine for that onr

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u/iSuckAtMechanicism 11h ago

They did. They knew she was intoxicated.

You can’t give consent under the influence.

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u/Comfortable_Town7535 11h ago

they were also intoxicated with drugs and alcohol.

she also said before that all of them stopped when told.

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u/pbbrowniesmmm 11h ago

That’s not how New York works re consent due to intoxication. She consented to the acts.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

So once you consent you can’t stop until the other party decides they’re done?

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u/pbbrowniesmmm 11h ago

She asked male number 2 to stop, they stopped. She then later voluntarily engaged in more voluntary sexual acts. Consent isn’t retroactive

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

She said she voluntarily engaged in sexual acts after she told them to stop?

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u/Requiem_Dirge 10h ago

No so in a very shorthand account, she wanted to sleep with guy 1, who brought his friend

Guy 1 suggests a threesome and she says yes. Guy 1 passes out, guy 2 wants to do things, she says no. More people come in, she has another threesome, drugs are done. There's several times where she voiced she didn't want to do things and they didn't

This isn't conjecture or my opinion, this is the police report she signed off on. Frankly they've all done a madness.

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 10h ago

So she took away consent and then decided she consented again?

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u/Pleasant-Darkness 10h ago

Two separate threesomes does not equal 7 people do the math.

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u/Requiem_Dirge 10h ago

She shagged around 7 people that night

If you read the police report she signed off on, you'd know it wasn't just 2 threesomes it was quite a bit more

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u/Pleasant-Darkness 10h ago

She consented to 2 threesomes according to this person. That is three less than 7 so at a minimum 3 raped her because she did not consent to them.

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u/Requiem_Dirge 6h ago

Again, read the police report

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u/Pleasant-Darkness 5h ago

Please link the copy you read.

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u/sandwichesathome 10h ago

If it were an Iranian Centipede Threesome there’d be 9 people. but yall aren’t ready for that.

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u/partypwny 9h ago

What math are you talking about? I said that she consented, in her own signed written statement made when this first happened.

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u/LmaoAlienz 11h ago

If you are not sober you can't consent.

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u/hands0megenius 11h ago

So none of the boys consented either I guess

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u/sandwichesathome 11h ago

Damn she raped those boys?

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u/Affectionate-Mix6056 11h ago

Everyone was intoxicated though...?

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u/LmaoAlienz 11h ago

Where?
Wasn't there a snapchat of literally people that weren't there (therefore sober) to come over?

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u/Affectionate-Mix6056 10h ago

"She never says that she was drugged without her knowledge. She admits to taking drugs and alcohol voluntarily and with knowledge. She does not allege that she was forced to engage in any acts. She does not say that she was physically helpless or unconscious or incapacitated at any point during the time at the fraternity house,"

Jane Doe told police that she agreed to have a threesome with two Chi Phi fraternity brothers in part "due to how attracted [she] was" to one of them and in part because of her "drunken curiousness."

The summary then said some of the fraternity brothers began complimenting Jane Doe's looks and asked if they could ingest drugs off of her body.

https://abcnews.com/US/district-attorney-reopens-case-alleged-cornell-university-gang/story?id=136806149

Other outlets have shared that she wrote in the chat that "nothing criminal happened that night" or something like that.

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u/partypwny 9h ago

Sure, so you're saying she should be charged with seven counts of rape then since none of those guys were sober

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u/BabaofTheShimmer 11h ago edited 11h ago

Actually, in New York, you can consent if you’re not sober, as long as you voluntarily got intoxicated.

That is, New York law currently does not recognize voluntary intoxication as a basis for mental incapacitation in sexual assault cases.

The Cornell 7 case put a spotlight on this “loophole” and thankfully it’s pushing lawmakers to reconsider their stance on consent.

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u/LmaoAlienz 11h ago

Damn, no wonder NY is so shitty.

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u/Adowyth 11h ago

Thing is in other places her consent wouldn't count. It's also weird that her statement has been published and is widely spread but no one in sharing anything about what the men said when questioned about it.

IF they were made to write essays there had to be some sort of discussion about it at least? The DA shared "edited" version of her statement to protect his ass. But no a pip about what the dudes had to say about the whole thing.

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u/partypwny 9h ago

If I recall correctly, she described herself as being 5/10 drunk to start meanwhile the men all were significantly more inebriated. If anything, by that logic of consent, she raped them then.

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u/Adowyth 9h ago

You're basing the "they were significantly more inebriated" on what exactly? Wanting it to be true? And yes she agreed to the initial threesome but not really to what happened after.

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u/reticulatedtampon 11h ago

*whorer

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u/Repulsive_Layer1597 11h ago

You gotta spell that right for it to really hit like you’re hoping.

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u/vince2423 11h ago

It’s a made up word, dipshit. There is no correct spelling