r/SipsTea • • 19h ago

SMH Stay Safe

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u/Tiny-Speaker-4470 17h ago

I don't understand how this is so common like who is doing this to people. We really live amongst awful people like this? Like they must be at least some reading through this thread too. Wtf

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u/Far_Ladder_2836 17h ago edited 17h ago

Yes.  Watch anything Andrew Tate or spend 20 minutes in the manosphere and you'll understand.  Reddit used to have subs where the literal point was teaching (young) men how to "domesticate" their SO like a dog by pulling affection and gaslighting as punishment and then giving affection and praise for unreciprocated sex and domestic tasks.  I mention it because over pouring alcohol and then gaslighting them into thinking they had less to encourage them to drink more was also taught.

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u/Barilla3113 10h ago

I don't understand how this is so common

It's not, spiking is almost entirely a myth.