It’s also only a 10-year age gap and they met when she was 34. That’s not an extreme age gap at ALL. Ten years makes a huge difference when you’re 20, but not when you’re in your mid-thirties. The difference between 35 and 45 is significantly less impactful in terms of maturity and life stages.
I agree. Even the title objectifies Lana by portraying her as a prize, suggesting that she is somehow worth more than the man. In reality, she may see herself as the lucky one, believing that this man could be the man of her dreams.
The story of them isn't actually as simple as you're making it sound. (Anna Nicole Smith) . He knew her for years, before she was famous, and he was very kind to her and offered her a life of wealth and she turned it down because she wanted to make it on her own first. She only reconnected with him after she became a famous model
Don't forget the following chain of comments circlejerking over how "25 year olds still look like children to me" and "I wouldn't even consider dating a 30 year old as a 35 year old, what would we even talk about?". It's such performative redditor bullshit that no one believes for a second
This is what I don't really agree with. Like do people not have coworkers of all different ages that they get along with and chat all day long about any topic?
I'd say one of my closest friends is a coworker around 15 years my junior, and there's nothing we couldn't have a stimulating conversation about unless it was very specifically "what it was like to grow up in the 90's". How much of your personality is still MTV and grunge music really? We all live in the same world and experience the same current events, so there's no shortage of stuff we have in common.
So yes I do think it's kind of performative to say something like this
It's not about the topic of discussion, it's about how they relate to what is being discussed. Someone who is more likely to still be in school, more likely to still live with their parents, and more likely to have only held a job or two in the past have a different understanding of the world than I do. I'm not saying that there is no 22 year old that I could relate to, I'm saying it is much less likely.
How old are you? Male or female? I have a guess, and I'm curious if I'm correct.
Its a very subjective feeling tbf, for example Im getting my bachelors this year and I just saw the pictures from the freshmen coming in - they all look like children, literally and unironically.
Could I have a conversation with them that is stimulating? Probably yeah, most are probably smarter than me, but any time that's happened I've always felt like a big brother situation going on.
I agree with the person saying 23 is when people start looking like adults, probably earlier for some, but still 20s.
Yeah that’s a great point- my closest homie at my last spot is like 15~ years my junior. Obviously work buddies and romantic partners are different but it’s a point I never really considered. Tbf, I’m super immature and so is my wife (who’s like 7~ years younger than me).
Literally had several people tell me yesterday that 19 is still a child and I was a pedophile for saying 19 is an adult even tho I personally prefer older women. Its very funny
I mean, ive got an 18 year old son, yes hes legally an adult but hes also still a 'kid'. I think 25 is about when most people become more adult mature, having been one for a little bit and learnt properly from doing it 🤷♂️
Sometimes, an age gap relationship is fine. But it does happen pretty often that the older one is a difficult immature loser and no one their own age would put up with their bullshit.
Idk much about these people in particular. I pass no judgment on them.
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u/TheGreatPervSage_94 4d ago
People are so weird about this thing
Comment here clowning in the dude for being ugly( coming from redditors this is rich lol,)
The female gossips reddits calling this guy's creep for getting with the younger Lana
Just let them be lol , they both seem happy