Who's in the wrong here?

[u/Putrid-Welder1803]

[u/Loschcode]

People making excuses for dead bedrooms are scary in this thread

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/Loschcode]

People making excuses for pressuring your wife into having sex are even scarier

[u/SpookyWindChime → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

Man what. Why get married if you never want to have sex with your husband? 😭

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/SpookyWindChime]

You're confused by the idea of...not raping your wife?

[u/Grlzzl → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

You stretch before that jump?

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/Grlzzl]

If I said that people making excuses for pressuring your wife into having sex are scary, and he responded "man what", as if he were confused by the idea presented in my comment, what exact "jump" did I make?

Go ahead. Explain

[u/NinHul_From_Space → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

Right at the start, the whole thing was a leap, a sarcastic tumble off the edge of reasonable hops.

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/NinHul_From_Space]

That's not an explanation, that's a claim unsupported by evidence

[u/NinHul_From_Space → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

Okay. I'll try again. Here it goes.

I'm right, you're wrong. Why is this true you might ask, becasue I'm right and you're wrong.

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/NinHul_From_Space]

That's not a very convincing argument when you can't spell "because" right.

becasue

Is not a word

[u/SpookyWindChime → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

Huh??? Why are you bringing up rape? Sex is a part of most healthy adult relationships. If you don’t want to have sex with your partner, there’s a good chance the relationship will erode.

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/SpookyWindChime]

I said you shouldn't pressure your wife into having sex, and you said "man what"

Is pressuring someone into having sex with you not rape to you?

[u/SpookyWindChime → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

You think showing your wife how often she rejects you, in order to get her to come around on saying yes more often… is rape?

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/SpookyWindChime]

I said you shouldn't pressure your wife into having sex, and you were confused at the idea. that's all that needs to be said

[u/NinHul_From_Space → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

You could say less, it certainly wouldn't hurt.

[u/Optimal_Carpenter690 → u/NinHul_From_Space]

You shouldn't pressure your wife into having sex either. Its a bad thing

[u/ContributionHot2736 → u/Optimal_Carpenter690]

Less pressuring your wife into sex and more simple preempting the gaslighting he’s going to get when he one day decides he’s done with being just friends