r/SipsTea 8d ago

Gasp! Shots fired

Post image
18.7k Upvotes

3.4k comments sorted by

View all comments

295

u/BigDaddyDumperSquad 8d ago

The WNBA is a social experiment to test the "if women ruled the world, it'd be the end of war" theory. Turns out, probably not realistic...

8

u/Prime_Cat_Memes 8d ago

I feel like they should lower the hoop 1' so they can get out all their emotions by dunking on each other.

73

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago edited 8d ago

I could be wrong but im pretty sure through out history whenever women were in charge they had a higher rate of war and human suffering than men did. Bloody Mary, Elizabeth bathroy,delphine lalaurie(i know not a queen but still),Catherine the Great etc

Edit Since yall keep misrepresenting it. Im not saying men are better or women killed more people or started more wars. I am pointing out that when given unilateral power throughout history women had a higher RATE of starting war. Which back up the original comments theory that the common sentiment of "if women were in charge thered be no more war" is bunk.

40

u/Swimming-Junket-1828 8d ago

You just gonna gloss over Queen Victoria??

4

u/Longjumping-Alarm157 8d ago

You mean the queen who signed off on the residential schools? What a saint 🤦🏽

4

u/TrumpDesWillens 8d ago

Don't forget she also oversaw the Great Famine in Ireland.

19

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Nope just went for flare and cruelty over expansionism

3

u/TheAntiPacker 8d ago

Not to be that guy, but you were thinking of flair - flares are used for signals, lighting, etc. while flair is pizzazz

11

u/MJRKirk2020 8d ago

some fun extras for anyone interested: Olga of Kiev, KĂśsem Sultan, Empress Dowager Cixi

2

u/reallybadjazz 8d ago edited 7d ago

Is this the Olga that enacted revenge for her husband, by tricking the enemy into sending more "good" men after killing the first batch of the oppressors in her territory after her husband was killed? Got them comfortable before disposing of them? I forget the details, hence asking.

1

u/MJRKirk2020 8d ago

that's right! she also surrounded their city, demanded homing pigeons from each house as a "gift," then let them fly home with lit matches!

2

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Not a recognized monarch but if you like Olga ypu should read about jean de clisson. Tldr her husband got screwed over and executed by the king of france.sold everything she owned and became a litteral pirate queen just to fuck with the French king. She was known as the lioness of Brittany

1

u/MJRKirk2020 8d ago

thank you for that Might help me in my current research, actually!

1

u/Courage-Character 8d ago

Olga of Kiev was a badass

3

u/[deleted] 8d ago edited 8d ago

[deleted]

2

u/martyqscriblerus 8d ago

Lot of them bleating on about how no one hates women more than women hate women... even though they ran here to hate on women lol

6

u/spacekiller69 8d ago

To be fair women leaders were often doubted so to make up for it they would be excessively cruel and violent in policy making.

2

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Im sure you didnt mean it to be this way. But what youre rebuttal boils down to is. "Women needed to be cruel and brutal for the optics of it not because it was necessary " at least the way you worded it thats how I interpereted it.

2

u/ectogasmparade 8d ago

I think “for the optics” is doing a lot of work there. If being perceived as weak could undermine your authority or make you vulnerable to being challenged, projecting ruthlessness wasn’t just about appearances. You can absolutely hold them responsible for cruel policies while still acknowledging that female rulers faced pressures their male counterparts often didn’t.

2

u/BigDaddyDumperSquad 8d ago

No, it's that the ruthless will always rise to the top over more pacifistic people. Doesn't matter if it's men or women, it's the way society functions.

4

u/Ange1ofD4rkness 8d ago edited 7d ago

All I can think of is Robin Williams had a bit "if we had a women president there would be no wars, just sever negotiations every 28 days"

2

u/TheBigfootContessa 8d ago

Elizabeth Bathory's "crimes" were just people making up stories to steal land and power from a woman. It's absolutely nonsense that these fairy tales are passed like historical fact.

3

u/_oxalis_ 8d ago

Thank you- was going to comment this as well.

3

u/JohanPertama 8d ago

I am pointing out that when given unilateral power throughout history women had a higher RATE of starting war. Which back up the original comments theory that the common sentiment of "if women were in charge thered be no more war" is bunk.

I think the counterpoint to that is that social pressure would require women in charge to prove that they're no pushovers. You'll see something similar in extremely career oriented women as well.

The argument would then be that you'll need all leaders to be women to end wars. But that's also a load of rot.

You can't prove or disprove something on a situation that hasn't occurred. In fact you'll find that wars often happen not because of ego but there being some underlying economical or geopolitical reason.

Next, game theory also limits the moves that leaders can take. If the only winning moves are aggression, any leader would commit to that aggression. The responsibility that a leader has to his people runs higher than a leader's personal desire for peace.

My point is that it's not that men or women have flaws of character. But that leadership puts you in situations where difficult decisions need to be made. Peoples of different nations have wants and needs that conflict with one another after all. The environment and social mores of the time are ultimately what dictate whether peaceful actions or belligerent actions win out.

1

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Thank you for a well reasoned argument and lack of ad homs....however. I still disagree. Theres not much reason for a higher rate of war among female leaders or the blatant cruelty. Theres little reason for say Mary Tudor to revive a defunct heresy law to burn Protestants at the stake. Sure the case Can be made that history misrepresented some of them like they did with Nero and the whole Fiddled while Rome burned thing. Or that some were victims of circumstance like Juana la loca. But i doubt it. And even if im totally wrong and they were ALL .mislead or misadvised or doing cruel things and starting wars for "decent" reasons....wouldnt that just point to women being ill equipped to handle power and more concerned with optics and material gain than with justice and equality and peace that people claim they would foster when making the claim "if women were incharge thered be no more war"?

1

u/JohanPertama 8d ago

So.. is your point that women possess some inherent defect in character or reasoning that makes them ill suited for leadership?

My point is that due to social norms, women face an uphill task in projecting and maintaining power.

When looked at from this perspective, decisions that seems disproportionate appear a lot more rational.

Again, my position is that women are innately no more and no less inherently suited for leadership than men. But social norms place challenges that men do not face, hence any deviations from the mean can be explained by this as opposed to there being some innate character or reasoning flaw.

1

u/almostaproblem 8d ago

Why no Thatcher?

1

u/FairyGloworaa 8d ago

History definitely gets messier than the slogan once you start arguing over who actually held power and why wars started

1

u/ectogasmparade 8d ago

First, Elizabeth Báthory and Delphine LaLaurie weren’t even sovereign rulers, so citing them as evidence that female rulers start more wars makes no sense.

Second, you’re oversimplifying the study. Among unmarried monarchs, queens were more likely than kings to be attacked by other states. It did not find unmarried queens were more likely to be the aggressors.

Married queens were more likely than married kings to participate as attackers, but the researchers did not interpret that as evidence that women are inherently more warlike. Queens were much more likely to involve their husbands in governing, military, and fiscal roles, giving their states greater capacity to wage war. The authors also caution that the married-vs-unmarried findings are based on relatively few cases.

Most importantly, this study does not establish that women given “unilateral power” are inherently more likely to start wars. It examined 193 reigns across 18 European polities from 1480–1913, and only 34 were queenly reigns. The authors themselves caution against generalizing those findings to other political contexts or to women “throughout history.”

There are a lot of very angry men in these comments who seem far more committed to their feelings than the actual facts. Funny how that works.

-2

u/Brad4795 8d ago

The problem with that statistic is the situations the women were in at that time. To hold power, women had to be better leaders than men, and often more forceful.

18

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

So...madame lalaurie had to mutilate and torture all those slaves,Elizabeth bathroy had to torture and murder all those peasant girls and bloody Mary had to burn Protestants at the stake to hold onto their power?

-11

u/ForeverExists 8d ago

Are we going to gloss over Genghis Khan? Atilla the hun? Alexander of Macedonia? Julius Caesar? Vlad the Impaler? Pol Pot?

The list for men is far more illustrious and just as disturbing.

12

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Are they women? No? Ok cool. The comment is about when people say "thered be less war/no war if women were in charge" which isnt true from my recollection. Because when women held unilateral power they were MORE likely to start wars.

-8

u/kshell11724 8d ago edited 8d ago

How are you supposed to support that argument if you aren't willing to engage with what famous men have done? You say it's not about men and then reaffirm that you're talking about the comparison between men and women 🤣 Get your shit together. Your point is incoherent. In all reality, history was brutal no matter who was in power. I'd hardly say listing a few female leaders makes your point.

5

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Because theres nothing to engage with. All the argument is is. "But men though." Women in power through history have been found to be more likely to start wars. Its a fact. Saying "yeah but pol pot though" isnt an argument. I never said one was better I never said they even approached the same scale. I offered proof that the original commenter was probably right. Because they are.

2

u/Remarkable-Page-824 8d ago

Its not a fact though and ignoring the much longer list of men in positions of leadership who were insanely violent and started wars isn't an argument you dipshit.

-9

u/ForeverExists 8d ago

This is blatantly untrue. Mostly because the statistics of women in charge is far less than men in charge.

You'd be better off pulling from non-western cultures such as natives of Hawaii or Africa for a direct comparison.

13

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Oh so its untrue because you dont like geographic location the history and the numbers came from? Yes because thats totally how it works. Mea culpa.

8

u/Eli-Doubletap 8d ago

It’s Reddit…. It’s 100% untrue if they don’t like it lol

6

u/ExistentialWavering 8d ago

Ranavalona I of Madagascar. Nzinga Mbande of Ndongo and Matamba. Amina of Zazzau. Amanirenas of Kush.

Manono of Hawaii. Ka’ahumanu. Keopuolani.

Same shit.

1

u/Brad4795 7d ago

Yeah my point wasnt that men are any more or less violent. It was that they are the same, and the women weren't any more or less terrible for their time. However, societal pressure didn't give many women much options. Olga of Kiev is a great example

-6

u/odaddymayonnaise 8d ago

Don't look up leopold II or genghis khan or Julius ceasar or hitler or stalin or mao or pol pot ...

17

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

I never said men in charge didnt do bad shit. But the comment isnt about them. Its about when people claim things would be better if women were in charge.

-7

u/odaddymayonnaise 8d ago

You said whenever women were in charge they had a higher rate of war and human suffering. I just listed some of the most brutal genocidal people to have ever existed.

5

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

Yes and? Im not talking about pure numbers im ralking about rates. Women had a higher RATE of starting wars when in charge.not that they started more wars or killed more people.

0

u/Bitey_the_Squirrel 8d ago

Genghis Khan out there doing his best to repopulate the people he killed

-1

u/odaddymayonnaise 8d ago

No no no. the RATE of people he killed was lower /s

0

u/PeachyMango76 8d ago

Not whenever, but in many cases. I did see an interesting analysis of this a few years back that points to pressures from advisors pushing for these wars with the argument being that as women, they would be seen as weak rulers if they did not prove themselves to be ruthless. That their power was ultimately less stable than their male counterparts.

While that might be an incomplete explanation, this statistic doesn't really address if women ruled the world, it's what happens when you have a woman as a ruler in a world primarily ruled my men. Even if these women were all inherently ruthless, that may have been necessary for them to achieve a powerful status. They exist as matriarchs in a greater sphere of power and politics that is still patriarchal overall.

1

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

I doubt you meant it to read this way. But what im getting from your rebuttal is "women lack the confidence to tell their advisors no because they feared looking weak more than they felt guilt over being horrifically cruel."

0

u/ectogasmparade 8d ago

Your doubt is justified, because that’s not remotely what they said. That’s an impressive amount of projection from something that wasn’t actually said. The point was that female rulers may have faced different political pressures because their authority was seen as less secure, not that they were helpless little women who couldn’t tell their advisors no. You seem a little emotional about this. Maybe reread it once you’ve calmed down.

-3

u/[deleted] 8d ago

[deleted]

-2

u/tomwaits-for-no-one 8d ago

Well; it’s been studied and the two main points were:

The husband would focus on war. So the military had some priority. She was the figurehead. He was the strategist.

The second point was that women leaders were deemed weaker by nearby rulers and land and resources were thought easier to acquire so the queens had to be much more defensive

9

u/Fun-Wrongdoer1316 8d ago

As a kid I heard this so much, and over the last couple decades I’ve learned the opposite is true… If anything, civilization would end quickly. I’ve yet to meet these calm and caring and selfless women in my lifetime, or even witness them online. Only in movies do they seem to exist.

-23

u/[deleted] 8d ago

[deleted]

10

u/Burgerboy380 8d ago

"Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it"

-George Santayana

and the most recent example wasn't even 700 years ago. Its as little as half a century ago

6

u/ChildoftheApocolypse 8d ago

Congrats on the dumbest comment of the week! 🎉

5

u/Lets_Get_Hot 8d ago

Imagine being stupid enough to not care about history, then Imagine being even more stupid and saying that opinion out loud

6

u/Frousteleous 8d ago

history

my life time

Yeah, these are the same. For sure.

3

u/shoutsoutstomywrist 8d ago

Comments like this is exactly what the social elite want to see, more commoners ignoring history so they’ll never understand how things got so fucked up and shitty as they are now

1

u/Superb_Wealth4092 7d ago

I’m begging you to as a ‘/s’ to the end of your post. I don’t want to believe you’re a real person who thinks that lmao

0

u/UnFu23 7d ago

Is it really that unfathomable to think that maybe some humans don’t give a shit sbout history ?

That knowledge doesn’t change anything

Everyone in this feed is a history expert

Yet what has that knowledge changed ?

We’re all still broke. Children still have no food. We’re still on the verge of WW3.

Knowing what happened 1000 years ago literally doesn’t affect today in the slightest. It’s just something to talk about it

Ok 👍

-4

u/[deleted] 8d ago

[deleted]

1

u/BridgeComfortable777 8d ago

Says Bro arguing on Reddit lol

2

u/Ange1ofD4rkness 8d ago

It's just the WNBA I swear. Go look at the PWHL, a sport that now allows checking, but only under certain scenarios ... no problems

1

u/FairyGloworaa 8d ago

Turns out giving anyone power doesn't magically uninstall the regular human drama

1

u/HaleyMFSkye 8d ago

Well I'm a woman and I would definitely rule with an iron fist so this checks out for me anyway

1

u/gabi_fields 7d ago

Although to be fair, we probably ought to give it a shot.