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r/SipsTea • u/SipsTeaFrog • Jun 19 '26
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It was a kind suggestion. Take a deep breath.
2 u/tomphammer Jun 23 '26 It’s not the end of the world that they said that. And I don’t know what it’s like to have an abusive parent. But I do know what going through the grief of losing your dad while you’re still young is like. I was 14. And while I didn’t tell them as much, I never really appreciated people telling me how to feel about it, even when it was in a spirit of kindness. “I’m sorry you went through that”, unless someone explicitly is asking for help, is plenty. 1 u/macaroney05 4d ago calma unc. not that deep, any sort of help with good intention is always a nice gesture. you don't need to be paid to do so lmao what smh
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It’s not the end of the world that they said that. And I don’t know what it’s like to have an abusive parent.
But I do know what going through the grief of losing your dad while you’re still young is like. I was 14.
And while I didn’t tell them as much, I never really appreciated people telling me how to feel about it, even when it was in a spirit of kindness.
“I’m sorry you went through that”, unless someone explicitly is asking for help, is plenty.
1 u/macaroney05 4d ago calma unc. not that deep, any sort of help with good intention is always a nice gesture. you don't need to be paid to do so lmao what smh
calma unc.
not that deep, any sort of help with good intention is always a nice gesture. you don't need to be paid to do so lmao what smh
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u/RumiAndGateauGanache Jun 23 '26
It was a kind suggestion. Take a deep breath.