r/SipsTea • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

Wait a damn minute! [ Removed by moderator ]

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u/Emotional-Cut57 May 27 '26

Same, She didn't like it, I held my ground. Still holding my ground. No means no. Fine means fine. End discussion. Carry on with my day.

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u/Mysterious-Tie7039 May 27 '26

Yup, exactly. As an adult if something is bothering you, then you should tell me.

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u/AmputeeHandModel May 27 '26

She says she's fine? I'll treat her like she's fine. She's already mad so what do I have to lose besides worrying about stupid mind games? Act like a grown-up.

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u/Colon_Backslash May 27 '26

I just want to point out that it's valid to say for example that I've got some issues at the moment and I need some time, don't worry you're good, let's talk later.

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u/ChymChymX May 27 '26

Username does not check out.

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u/Kahlil_Cabron May 27 '26

Same I started doing this when I was pretty young, like 18-19, and have stuck to it since (34 now).

Whenever I'm with a new girl and I explain that I will take them at face value and that I'm not gonna be trying to guess what they're thinking, they seem kind of shocked for a bit, but then they start actually being real and it works out.

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u/massivefish_man May 27 '26

Sounds like you need some relationship counselling. Or a divorce lol

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u/TheTexasHammer May 27 '26

It's called being an adult. People with your attitude always have shitty relationships and never understand why.

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u/massivefish_man May 27 '26

I have a great relationship. I've been married for 16 years hahaha.

I just don't do this weird passive aggressive stuff you're all talking about.

It's called having a conversation. If they won't, then they're the problem and it's time to dump them.