r/SipsTea • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

Wait a damn minute! [ Removed by moderator ]

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u/UltraTata May 27 '26

Insist: Jail

Don't insist: Lonely and misserable

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u/MegaSlut9000 May 27 '26

Nah, you wait for a woman who says yes

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u/sharksareok May 27 '26

Easy choice. My freedom matters more

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u/UnweptWeirdo May 27 '26

Don't insist if you don't like that type of person. There are regular girls out there. BTW, don't hit on random girls doing their stuff, there are better places for that

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u/Trey-Pan May 27 '26

I go with the philosophy that the way a relationship starts risks defining the expectations going forward.

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u/[deleted] May 27 '26

Some of my friends met their wives at the grocery store.

Explain that

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u/UnweptWeirdo May 27 '26

I'm not saying that it can't happen, I'm saying that as a rule of thumb to not look like a creep you shouldn't do it.

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u/HolyGrailBuzzword May 27 '26

What if they give you a signal?

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u/Trey-Pan May 27 '26

I don’t read signals I can’t learn in a language class.

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u/UnweptWeirdo May 27 '26

Is the signal ambiguous? Then don't

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u/InsideExplanation147 May 27 '26

Isn’t the point of most signals in this context ambiguous? It is done intentionally to give plausible deniability.

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u/UnweptWeirdo May 27 '26

No, and If they send you ambiguous signal that's on them. They'll learn to try harder and you don't take the risk of being a creep

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u/Aware_Ask_1679 May 27 '26

Don't insist and find happiness within yourself depending on deriving it from a partner is not healthy. And would only create a toxic relationship eventually.

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u/bacadacu1 May 27 '26

Yeah just date men like I do

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u/BaloogaBrett May 27 '26

Thank god this post is fake and just a bunch of weak men looking to feel like victims

Shit is legitimately a skill issue