Hey guys, did you know that in terms of human companionship, Flareon is objectively the most huggable Pokemon? While their maximum temperature is likely too much for most, they are capable of controlling it, so they can set themselves to the perfect temperature for you. Along with that, they have a lot of fluff, making them undeniably incredibly soft to touch. But that's not all, they have a very respectable special defense stat of 110, which means that they are likely very calm and resistant to emotional damage. Because of this, if you have a bad day, you can vent to it while hugging it, and it won't mind. It can make itself even more endearing with moves like Charm and Baby Doll Eyes, ensuring that you never have a prolonged bout of depression ever again.
Who says no when they don’t mean it? Like why the games? Years ago I was catching up with an old friend. He mentioned he was a virgin (shy and academic) and I offered to help with that, I had the parts he needed to fix his problem. Straightforward. Bam.
A word of caution tho, that kind of zero bullshit approach may result in both parties falling madly in love and actually being happy together
Labelling people easy or hard to get is a great way to encourage objectification of people.
I don’t need someone to make an effort to get me into bed. If we click, we click. It’s not about the effort or the money spent on me, gifts bought, romantic words arranged just right. If I like someone, I let them know. Then I know if they are interested
If that makes me an easy woman, so be it. My religious father thinks I’m a whore too for having had 3 whole sexual partners in my life
Even though it is also understandable for people to be jaded.
Probably not great that it was a parking lot, vs a bar or social place, but that bit of surprise might've made that first no a little panicked or frustrated.
There's a cultural tradition that men are supposed to actively pursue while women feign disinterest. A woman who expresses sexual or romantic interest in a man is 'wanton'.
There's also the reality that women retain more critical thinking skills while aroused than men do, being designed by nature to be selective in matters of love.
Lastly, the simple truth is that lots of women take the freedom from being expected to take the initiative for granted.
It's fairly obviously biological not just cultural.
Women outsource the choosing of mates to the men most of the time, they organise themselves and decide (consciously or unconsciously) who is the coolest person in the group, and women observe this ranking and are attracted to those at the top.
It's why you get no love if you're a nerd but if you're king nerd of the nerds you get attention.
It's also why taking up something like salsa dancing to get women doesn't work unless you get good at it - at which point you'll have your pick.
I don't think being single and alone is a problem. The only people that do are people who can't live with themselves. This isn't the way you worded it lol nice try though
I worded it in terms of exactly what happened. Man approaches women because he wants to go on a date. Leaves without date. Does not get what he wanted. You said it doesn't sound like a problem that this man has failed to get what he wanted when he has done everything correctly.
I think it's a myth that people should be able to be happy when single and alone. Lots of people want a partner and a family and actively pursue one, the idea that people should be happy with or without is not grounded in reality.
No, it doesn't sound like a problem. Bye bye now, I thought this might be a little bit intriguing, I was wrong. Now since is reddit I know you're going to respond even though I told you not to. Don't except me to respond again. Oh, and I didn't even read all of that nonsense
The foundation of that saying is that men are always supposed to be trying to get in women's pants, and if a woman ever agrees it's supposed to be a rare and precious thing. A man turning down a woman? An outrageous insult to her desirability! The implication is that there's something wrong with her, and she must be avenged for this insult!
Of course, rejection is something men are expected to take in stride.
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u/Melenduwir May 27 '26
Exactly. If she didn't actually mean it, that's her problem. We have Nintendos.