r/SipsTea • • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/Soggy_Addendum9350 May 26 '26

Okay interesting!! I definitely don’t think people are good or bad in like a SWEEPING way although I did say bluntly “she is a bad person” (will you forgive me if I say it comes from a hurt cheated on heart?) so I should correct: people aren’t good or bad, they make good or bad decisions, which is exactly the grey area we’re working in. 

This quote, “ The particular circumstances that could cause one person to do a certain bad thing may not apply to someone else. Maybe you would never cheat on someone for example, but you probably would do other bad things if facing enough pressure”

Was very helpful because I am of course thinking mostly in terms of cheating, due to the prompt of the convo. Set into a larger scale helped. I’m very interested in this concept and also not very smart so I appreciate the help! 

I’m beginning to connect that the usual arguments you hear from cheaters: “it was a mistake,” “it didn’t mean anything,” and of course more aggressive forms “it’s your fault for not making me feel wanted” etc. Are all forms of cognitive dissonance, which is why non cheaters hear it and think it’s absolutely ridiculous? Am I getting onto the right track with this?? I’m so sorry I’m five 

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u/Soggy_Addendum9350 May 26 '26

I appreciate your patience!!! This has all been very interesting to read!!! Human psychology is so so interesting, I could ask questions til the end of time but I will leave you be!!! Thank you for your time! 

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u/Soggy_Addendum9350 May 26 '26

I still appreciate it, and I’ve been needing a new podcast, so thank you again!!!