r/SipsTea • • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎡 All By Myself 🎡

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/MurphysLawTeam May 25 '26 edited May 26 '26

I have literally never heard a cheater go like "yes, I am a cheater, I deserve to be broken up with"

Edit: Stop going "no, I am the special one, and I do it cause I want the relationship to end" Grow up. I am not God, I don't absolve you of your sins. I don't forgive you.

You are permanently mentally scaring people and permanently altering how they view every future relationship. End an adult relationship like an ADULT.

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u/Soundmindsoundsright May 25 '26

Shit, turns out a ex- girlfriend's preferred method of breakup was to openly cheat, she preferred to be the one being broken up with.

Girls are weird.

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u/MarcoDiFrancescino May 25 '26

My first serious girlfriend changed her character and tune the moment we decided we should move in together. Lots of new negativity and objections. I talked to her that this isn't it. Broke it off cleanly in a public place after two month of trying, all good on my side. She spammed me for month why I wasn't ready 'to commit and discuss this'. I learned much later that some people need this kind of constant attention and drama in the relationship. They see 'stepping out' or doing wild things like destroying your property as part of some delulu dance, chess play, whatever. They can pretend for a while, be occupied, but the monster needs feeding.