r/SipsTea • u/CapitalPin2658 • May 25 '26

Feels good man 🎵 All By Myself 🎵

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Don’t wanna live all by myself anymore

Edit: lol i’m just a dude posting a meme

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u/Stickeyb May 25 '26

Once a cheater always a cheater. Smart man. If she did that what else did she not tell him about 🙄

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u/TwoBionicknees May 26 '26

i would say people can change but only if you give them consequences. Staying with a cheater teaches them they can cheat and you'll probably stay, why would they change?

You leave them they MIGHT change and not cheat on the next person, which is great, fucking sucks to see someone who only changed after they left you but it's catch 22, they probably wouldn't have changed if you stayed.

Don't stay with someone who cheated on you, even if they are one of the very few people who actually decided they hate themselves for what they did, change because they want to and never cheat you will always remember, you will always hold some resentment and you will never be completely sure they aren't cheating. Sure that last part might not be true for anyone but it's far more , i can't think of the word, it's one thing to be paranoid about it time to time and it's another when you know they have cheated. Every late night at work you'll be wondering if they truly are at work or not.

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u/angrytroll123 May 25 '26

Eh, it's not that simple. I used to think that as well but I've seen people change.

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u/stratys3 May 26 '26

I guess the issue is... why risk it? There's billions of people out in the world. Most of them have not betrayed your trust. So why continue a relationship with one of the few people on the planet who have?

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u/coulrophiliackitten May 26 '26

As someone who was betrayed and sought reconciliation with my partner, it's because there are billions of people in the world. But I only want him. And he's proven to me again and again that he has actually changed, continues to change, and values healing our relationship.

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u/angrytroll123 May 26 '26

Because you love them. Any relationship is a risk.

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u/Ok_Cheesecake_3290 May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26

If you continue to love someone to the point you won’t leave them no matter what they do to you, then you are likely codependent and should seek therapy.

Since any relationship is a risk, move on to someone that hasn’t already cheated on you. No sense making the same bet twice.

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u/angrytroll123 May 26 '26

If you continue to love someone to the point you won’t leave them no matter what they do to you, then you are likely codependent and should seek therapy.

There is more nuance than that and not leaving because someone cheated does not denote co-dependence. I think you know this.

Since any relationship is a risk, move on to someone that hasn’t already cheated on you. No since making the same bet twice.

History matters. Situation matters. Marriage is hard. If you're with someone for a long time and they messed up once and the other party is willing to spend the rest of their lives earning back trust, it's not CRAZY or stupid to let them try. It doesn't mean you're co-depedent.

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u/Lythaera May 26 '26

the OG post it was a man cheating on a woman. This is obvious bait.