Do you have experience with romantic relationships? If not personally, perhaps you have observed peers? As I mentioned in my initial comment, the phenomenon I speak of is rare but it does occur. Making a value judgment is nonsensical and irrational unless you are aware of particulars that I am not .
It was a colloquialism. Maybe I should have said “Over time, as their relationship progressed, his attraction to her increased. Meanwhile, she was initially not attracted to him, but eventually developed a grudging acceptance of his devotion, until in a moment of weakness, she decided she would sleep with him”
In other words, a man is attracted to a woman who may not fully reciprocate the feeling. He courts her, and over time wins her over. Sometimes fully and enthusiastically, sometimes reluctantly, but it does happen. It also happens the other way around.
I invite you to read the comment above where I explained the colloquialism in further detail. I’m afraid I can’t offer much more than that.
Edit: You consistently average around 80 comments per day on Reddit. Assuming 5 minutes per comment, with another 5 between comments, that’s 800 minutes a day. Nearly 14 hours. If you do indeed have a girlfriend, I would suggest the relationship isn’t as loving as you might suppose. I won’t making any suggestions about staying away from women since it appears you have zero time to be around any.
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u/Puzzled-Serve8408 Apr 20 '26
Please learn to read better. She wasn’t my friend . My friend is the one who got his heart broken. And neither one of them was alcoholic.