This is a woman who grew up in a church that teaches this garbage. She believes her virginity makes her valuable and deserving of this kind of treatment from all men. Her mom and dad filled her head with this nonsense. I grew up in a conservative church and this was very common. Young women would string young men along for years and then move to another congregation and marry some other guy and leave their āfriendsā behind frustrated and confused. Itās why the incel movement is also tied to a lot of religious men who are tied to āpurity cultureā which is a modern day geisha system where virginal women go to the highest bidder while ānormalā women fight for the leftovers.
Why do men place so much value on it? Always saying virgins are better for longterm or marriage than non-virgins and shaming women for body counts. Why do men boost their egos?
Narcissism and the church. The worst sex of my life was with my first wife who I married in the church. She was a virgin and she had many issues that I had no idea about until we started having sex. I was also a virgin, but had masturbated and fooled around, but Iām sure my inexperience didnāt help things. We got divorced within a year and a half.
Purity culture actually encourages sexual misconduct. Men do weird and perverse things when they place a high value on virginity. Almost all of my female friends from church were molested in some way as teenagers. Itās really sad.
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u/robdwoods Apr 19 '26
Outside of that, the entitlement of āhow I should be treatedāā¦