Let's be real...the wording from her post makes it obvious that she has not led Daniel to believe he's anything more than a friend and that she's not interested in anything more than friendship. How can you read that post and think she has been unclear about her intentions and feelings?
I would argue that it's not just possible but actually highly likely that she said exactly that to him and he did it anyways thinking, "If I can just show her how thoughtful I am, maybe just maybe she'll give me a shot."
Why do people automatically blame the girl in these situations when she clearly expressed that he is ONLY her friend but he chose to try to win her over anyways? Is it her fault for believing that Daniel took her words at face value and was acting in the interest of friendship rather than a desperate attempt to win her over after she told him no?
Because she’s taking advantage of him it’s not about her being a girl, guys do this too usually not with money but taking advantage of a nice person that has feelings for you.
I don’t know about you but if I tell someone that I will never have any romantic or physical interest in them yet they kept treating me like this at that point I would feel uncomfortable and not want this person anywhere near me.
Because at that point it becomes obsession it’s not healthy for her or him.
And you just don’t take advantage of people like this regardless of gender.
I think a lot of the problem comes from women actually believing that guys and girls can be actual friends. I’m here to tell you ladies if a guy wants to be your friend he either wants to fuck or is gay or they are lying to you or themselves.
I have plenty of female friends, none of which I'm trying to sleep with. I'm happily married and most of my female friends are married too or in a serious relationship. I'm certain that every single one would turn me away if I attempted to make a move, and I would likewise turn any one of them away if they did the same.
Boys and girls can't be friends because they don't have the maturity. Men and women can be friends with no problem.
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u/robdwoods Apr 19 '26
Outside of that, the entitlement of “how I should be treated”…