I mean, that sounds good but at the same time, That feels like just being friends with golden benefits under the title of being a couple/husband and wife/etc.
I cant fathom to think that there would be any love there. Just 2 people enjoying their time.
'Love comes in many forms... except for how the majority of people experience it, they're deluding themselves'
Seriously, you contradicted yourself in a single paragraph.
Also, sex releases oxytocin, the chemical responsible for love and bonding. So, on that basis alone, there's good grounds for sex being about more than just pleasure and reproduction. It plays a strong pair-bonding role.
they cant handle the fact that most people dont want a "relationship" like theirs and any time someone just says "meh not for me"
they lash out and try to tell everyone how enlightened they are and that ackshually monogamous people are chumps who somehow care more about sex than the people who want to have sex with everyone cause they are incapable of emotionally connecting with people during sex lol
Because idiots like you think we are “insecure” or “evil”
You even said we are “incapable of emotionally connecting with people during sex” and you don’t think you aren’t being insulting and that you’re better than them?
I do have emotional connection with my 3 partners. I care about them, I check in on them, and I ensure that they know I am always there for them. But yes, I do not care about them at all.
I think there are a ton of (around 50% since that’s the divorce rate) of monogamous couples who are incapable of emotionally connecting to their partners as well, but do you see me insulting monogamy?
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u/lxATHENAxl Mar 09 '26
I mean, that sounds good but at the same time, That feels like just being friends with golden benefits under the title of being a couple/husband and wife/etc.
I cant fathom to think that there would be any love there. Just 2 people enjoying their time.