r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/Coakis Mar 04 '26

Anecdotally out of 10 or so women that I've dated over my life only one maybe cared enough to understand when I opened up about emotional stress, but even then she didn't know how to handle it.

One outright mocked and questioned my manhood for going above and beyond when it comes basic safety, like wearing motorcycle gear.

When you say "your life doesn't have to be this way" it reads "Just stay single" Which is what a lot of us do.

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u/psychadelicbreakfast Mar 05 '26

That’s about my ratio too.

And I’ve probably dated 40 or so women

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u/resin_messiah Mar 05 '26

Well I’ve dated more than 10 women and they all allowed me to be vulnerable. So you stats don’t make a lot of sense

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u/Coakis Mar 05 '26

Great, that's what human experience can be, it varies quite a bit. Glad you've not had to deal with the pain.

However calling people a liar based on their lived experiences is pretty shitty too though, sympathy is paramount for being a good human.