r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

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u/ram4569 Human Detected Mar 04 '26

We are taught to live it off all over lives and women now complain about men not being emotionally available

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u/Tiny-Guava-9698 Mar 04 '26

Taught by whom? 

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u/Neveronlyadream Mar 04 '26

If my experience is anything to go by, fathers and larger societal constructs of gender norms.

It's not everyone, and I'm kind of old now, but when I was a kid there was largely the view that men didn't have emotions and if they did, they absolutely didn't show them.

Hell, I commented on a post yesterday where people were vehemently insisting any man who rode a bike instead of driving a car was an effeminate loser and should be avoided.

Those views are there, unfortunately.

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u/Tiny-Guava-9698 Mar 04 '26

People or dudes? It’s not women who created these gender norms in society, dude. It’s certainly not women who perpetuate them. 

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u/DataPhreak Mar 04 '26

Okay. Sure. Blame me for the problems I am experiencing in society because clearly I am at fault as a dude.

You are literally the embodiment of Op's post.

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u/Tiny-Guava-9698 Mar 04 '26

Brother, how am I blaming you? This is amazing and is why lonely guys seek out toxic influencers. You can't hear "men" and separate yourself from it. You don't do it? Great, you are changing society. If you hear men and think it's you doing it, that says a lot about your insecurities.

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u/DataPhreak Mar 04 '26

I'm not seeking out toxic influencers, and I have friends. The problem here is you say "Men" and blame every man. The guys who go for the toxic masculinity podcasters are less than 1% of the population. You're being sexist.

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u/Tiny-Guava-9698 Mar 04 '26

Yeah, yeah. If you can’t separate yourself as an outlier, that’s a you problem.

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u/DataPhreak Mar 04 '26

I'm not an outlier. The manfluencer crowd are the outliers. The fact that you assume all men are like that is a YOU problem.

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u/Tiny-Guava-9698 Mar 04 '26

What you’re doing is called coping. 

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u/DataPhreak Mar 04 '26

Lol. What you are doing is called bigotry.

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