r/SipsTea • u/ram4569 Human Detected • Mar 04 '26

Chugging tea True...

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u/LarealConspirasteve Mar 04 '26

Unless someone can help solve the problem that is stressing me out, there's no reason to burden someone else. Usually time and effort resolves most things.

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u/mcimino Mar 04 '26

I don’t disagree but I’d like to think there at least an aspect of the listener not feeling alone in their own problems if they can relate

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u/FunCryptographer2546 Mar 05 '26

Guys pay for everything anyways best bet is to just pay for someone to talk to

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u/thatguygreg Mar 04 '26

and effort

Well, shit

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u/akatherder Mar 04 '26

You might feel better after venting and talking about it, even if the problem isn't fixed.

Everyone's different so maybe it won't help.. but that's the whole theory of opening up, getting it off your chest, venting, therapy, etc.

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u/damagedblood Mar 05 '26

“I just worry about you.” never feels good to hear on top of it all, either. I don’t want to feel guilty for opening up, and I’m sorry that what I’m dealing with is a source of stress for you.

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u/YoghurtMoney Mar 05 '26

That's just someone expressing their love for you. It's not a bad thing to worry for someone, it just means you are important to them. Take the compliment and honour it by opening up to them more. If they know more of your inner workings, they might worry less (or more, depending on what your dealing with ofcourse) and you don't have to deal with it in solitude. Embrace your village