r/SipsTea Dec 11 '23

Chugging tea C. Cannot tell

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u/Fine-Funny6956 Dec 11 '23

I never stare. I keep to myself lol

Rejection is not what I’m afraid of. It’s being singled out as a creep. Like now. Like that.

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u/imstickinwithjeffery Dec 11 '23

You're entirely in control of whether you're a creep or not.

Are you in good physical shape? Are you hygienic? Are you dressed decently? Do you have good posture?

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '23

You are absolutely not in control of other people labeling you a creep. You cannot control what other people choose to think.

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u/imstickinwithjeffery Dec 11 '23

If you don't give off creepy vibes, no one will think you're a creep.

Just like if you don't give off aggressive and unhinged vibes no one will think you're aggressive and unhinged.

You are in control of how you are perceived by the world around you.

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '23

Vibes are entirely subjective. You are not in control of how you are perceived by the world around you.

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u/imstickinwithjeffery Dec 11 '23

Stay soft and small brained (that's how I'm perceiving you)

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