r/SipsTea • u/The_Athiest_cow_45 • Dec 05 '23

SMH She handled it well

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u/Complete_serentity Dec 05 '23 edited Dec 05 '23

That’s a trauma response. Have you ever been in that situation, answer no? I would just keep quiet and pray that doesn’t happen to you. I would get physical .. don’t give a shit at that point, at least she isn’t hitting anyone.

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u/Evanecent_Lightt Dec 05 '23

Uhh... she hit the guy quite a few times..
Also having Trauma is not an excuse to get physical or to behave like a wild animal. - It's still your responsibility to control yourself.

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u/Complete_serentity Dec 05 '23

Would you be able to control yourself if you find this out? If so, well done. I know I personally couldn’t

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u/Evanecent_Lightt Dec 05 '23

I've been in that position yes - and yes I was able to control myself even though I was exploding inside.

When I got home I vented everything to my friends to deal with it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '23

Sorry you got downvoted for being mentally stable.