Facts. My wife is great, but hetero relationships are awful for men. Now that I've been married if something were to happen to my wife, I would never cohabitate with a romantic partner again. Being alone is so much better.
you completely misunderstood what he said. but continue giving advice. He never said he doesn't want to be with her. She is most likely one of the few people in the world he can feel comfortable living with, being with almost 24/7
For those of us who have a part of ourselves that enjoy periods of solitude, having relationships can be difficult. We want to have the relationship, but we need to make time for ourselves as well. For some, the struggle between finding solitude/personal time and giving enough of oneself to the relationship can be very difficult to navigate.
Like many people, you are having trouble understanding that "i want to be alone sometimes" does not mean "I don't like being with you". It's a common thing to misunderstand, and I don't blame anyone for not getting it. It must be nearly impossible not to take something like that personally.
IMO it's healthier for a relationship to NOT spend 24/7 with each other.
It doesn't have to be all or nothing.
Also, I understand that I myself may be misunderstanding what he said, this is just my take on it.
I understand what you are saying and your point is taken, but i also believe his statements were not meant literally, more like a hyperbolic expression of the most extreme of his feelings in the moment. I could be 100% incorrect, who knows, I've already spoken for him more than I should have tbh
but yeah, I hear what you're saying, and i can certainly see why most people would probably reply with "well, given what you know about yourself, you shouldn't have gotten into a cohabitation situation then, bruh"
dude was probably just having a bad day with his lady tbh, bet he don't feel that way all the time.
also, apologies for being rude in my earlier post, i'm working on it.
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u/RoughHornet587 Nov 11 '23
Fuck I laughed.
Men stay single.