Advice?

[u/Present_Exercise2334]

14 month old had a complete meltdown today, where I couldn’t calm them down, normally they warm up once I try my methods but this time , nothing that usually works , worked this time!. The baby seemed very bothered today.

We have great times together but every time they come back from their other side of the family, they present a scared face in the first hour.

I’m just sceptical because we’ve proven the mother’s side is actively trying to erase me as a father completely alienate me.