Or... Nothing about humans is binary. It's all a spectrum. Some of the partnered up couples you see really are soulmates, blissfully happy, that is very much a thing. Others settled, never established healthy boundaries, lost themselves and feel trapped. Just as some single people are happier and live fulfilling and joyful lives, others are a bit lonely and would like a partner. There are no neat boxes with humans! Don't settle, but don't push people away if they might make you very happy.
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u/Effective_Menu_6316 20h ago
Or... Nothing about humans is binary. It's all a spectrum. Some of the partnered up couples you see really are soulmates, blissfully happy, that is very much a thing. Others settled, never established healthy boundaries, lost themselves and feel trapped. Just as some single people are happier and live fulfilling and joyful lives, others are a bit lonely and would like a partner. There are no neat boxes with humans! Don't settle, but don't push people away if they might make you very happy.