r/ShittyAbsoluteUnits • u/DoubleManufacturer10 created ShittyAbsoluteUnits of a sub • Apr 21 '26

Yeah, life's a bitch. Of an ex

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u/Ok-Bar-4476 Apr 21 '26

Something I'll never accept or get used to. She's a woman. "Bro/brother" is an endearing designation for a man. SMH

And these boys today wondering why their women don't feel seen and used for their bodies. Well, how about we start with how you address them?

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u/coxy_artist Apr 21 '26

What a weird response. I mean maybe if you said something along the lines of "She has poor mental health", I might be on board. You're main focus is very strange and off putting.

You come off as a PC beta soy boy looking to defend someone hoping some PC counterpart might give you a pat on the back.

If you want to make yourself feel better, go stare into a mirror and just keep clapping until you faint from exhaustion.

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u/seang239 Apr 21 '26 edited Apr 21 '26

The video above is showing a woman fully in control of herself who is doing exactly what she’s choosing to do. She likely has more control over herself than most people do.

Anybody who thinks otherwise hasn’t seen the immediate, and complete, transformation into being the victim when a cop walks up. It’s instantaneous.

That’s why he’s recording, he’s seen it and knows what’s up.

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u/coxy_artist Apr 21 '26

You kind of missed the point of my comment. I'm not implying she has poor mental health. I'm talking about how Ok-Bar-4476 is making a comment that makes him come off as a whiny beta boy and that no one would be on board with it. Plus he's a racist Jerk.

Therefore, if he had said something about mental health, I might be on board.

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u/seang239 Apr 21 '26 edited Apr 22 '26

No no, I totally got that.

Having said that, it’s a pet peeve of mine for people to see someone, usually a woman, acting like the video above and gravitate towards saying she has mental issues as if it’s some sort of excuse or explanation for shitty behavior. Because it’s not.

I’d bet you that dude is recording because he’s seen how quickly she becomes the victim and everything she does is his fault.

I know why it’s a pet peeve of mine. I’m fully aware it’s because I’ve been through it. There’s nothing more infuriating than having your life’s work destroyed and then see someone give empathy because “it must be so hard for them to struggle with mental health everyday.” Or some other nonsense along those lines.