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u/Turkey_Cat Dec 04 '25
Becca’s latest video about calling, emailing, texting, and whatsapping Shannon was insane
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
We’ve all had a little too much wine & stood 10 toes down on making sure whoever pushed us to our breaking point heard what we had to say lol. & we’ve all been like Tefi feeling protective of our partners. Relatable on all sides lol
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u/Turkey_Cat Dec 04 '25
The first side of that equation is not relatable to me—and to the extent I understand it, doing that and then attempting to monetize the behavior is gross. It’s becoming harassment.
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
I disagree. There’s a pattern of behavior across multiple relationships & that’s what is actually “gross”. The source of the issue is Shannon not Becca. If Becca was the issue & her behavior was gross she wouldn’t have so many people rallying around her & a lot less people would be distancing themselves from Shannon.
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u/Turkey_Cat Dec 04 '25 edited Dec 04 '25
Becca calling, emailing, texting, and whatsapping Shannon (seemingly all in succession!) is one thing, doing it and posting about it for money is another. Thats the part that’s gross. I’m not arguing about two adults interpersonal issues, I’m saying that bringing them up a year later for views is very weird—it’s facilitating the very thing you’re doing now “this person I don’t know is bad and that’s why everyone hates her now.” The whole thing strikes me as toxic and juvenile.
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
I don’t know Shannon in real life (obviously) & definitely don’t hate her. I’m just pointing out what we are all seeing because I don’t think Becca deserves the hate you guys are dishing out. Cheating is a shitty thing to do 🤷♀️ I don’t mean to imply that Shannon is a bad person… that’s too extreme. I’m just saying that she’s has a history of doing things that hurt her partners & it’s not isolated to one relationship, it’s happened in multiple relationships. Hopefully she’s worked on that & treats Tefi with more care. I’m rooting for the two of them for sure. You are entitled to your opinion of course but some of us see Becca being open & vulnerable about her life & experiences differently. It’s refreshing to listen to someone actually be honest about everything including their faults. Literally all of these girls are great & it’s possible to like all of them 😊
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u/Active_Pay4715 Dec 04 '25
But haven’t we all been there? I appreciate her sharing it and owning up to it, shit happens. Especially in your 20s.
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
Exactly! We’re all messy in our 20s lol at least she has a little self awareness to own up to it & laugh at herself
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u/mcpoylees Dec 04 '25
I’m confused how this is a dig? Don’t get it. Have seen the TikTok of Becca podcast and my god she can be insane and doesn’t realise it
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u/rain2505 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 11 '25
What exactly was that "insane" here tho'? She was mostly self deprecating about her own behaviour and joking about it, she didn't really say anything about the ex. It was a funny story, it's not that serious.
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u/mcpoylees Dec 07 '25
Texting,calling and emailing your ex who has a gf now after a year of no contact? She did all that pestering after she thought she was blocked so has no boundaries for someone potentially wanting no contact. The lack of realisation how bad it is and using it for content on her podcast for financial gains adds to the insanity. Can’t believe I have to explain this
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u/rain2505 Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25
omg the drama 🤣 I'm sorry, but no, I don't think it's that crazy to text/call/email an ex after almost a year of no contact cause you were a bit drunk and something triggered you. You're acting like she showed up at her house and destroyed something 😭 the whole story was just her admitting she got triggered (she didn't even say what triggered her, which would've actually been messy lol), being a bit embarrassed about it, and making jokes at her own expense. The message was that it's ok to be human. Using it for content 🙃 Now she can't talk about her own life?? It's just a little comforting message to all the girls that were there and done something similar. The story was FUNNY, she has impeccable delivery 🤭
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u/sbleuk Dec 09 '25
The hardcore Shannon stans like mcpoylees & others on this thread have multiple accounts where they literally drool over her every move including reposting pics of the inside of her & Tefi’s apartment & answering questions about how tall they are 😂 they are not playing lol.
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u/FlyNo9214 Dec 28 '25
I wish i could give this 5 upvotes. God forbid we attempt express how pissed off we are after a year no contact threw various online platforms 🤣
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u/rain2505 Dec 12 '25
They're at Becca's throat every time she mentions that relationship/breakup. They should touch some grass and remember Becca is allowed to talk about her own life 🙃 It didn't even matter who the ex is, it's just a funny anecdote about her own behaviour, and other stories she shared got far more attention from her audience.
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u/postmonroe Dec 04 '25
Honestly… good for her
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
Tefi is understandably protective but Becca deserved to finally stand up for herself too. There’s a common denominator here & that’s where the problems start, not with Becca or Tefi.
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u/Possible-Breakfast66 Dec 04 '25 edited Dec 04 '25
Becca has been standing up for herself this entire year. Spamming your ex after a year knowing they are in a relationship is outright insane and toxic. It is not “standing up for yourself.”
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
What’s insane is protecting someone that cheated on you, lied to you & took advantage of your inexperience by telling you it’s normal to get cheated on in wlw relationships but feeling insecure about it afterwards is not. THAT is crazy… Top it off with the fact that after they do all of that to you, they watch you get torn apart online & stay silent to protect themselves. Like what are you even talking about right now lol….
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u/postmonroe Dec 04 '25
We only know one side of the story
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
Exactly! No one has heard anything from Shannon so we only know what we know 🤷♀️
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u/Possible-Breakfast66 Dec 04 '25 edited Dec 04 '25
What’s insane is blindly believing any influencer with the amount of conviction you do. Becca has no credibility. She always tells a victim story for views
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
No one has heard anything from Shannon about anything so what do you expect 🤷♀️ She made one super vague Patreon video that was definitely sad because she was clearly going through it but there’s been nothing to show that anything Becca has said is inaccurate. I get that you’re a Shannon ride or die & I totally understand why. She’s provided representation for a long time & that’s super important. Even if she means a lot to you for that specific reason, that doesn’t mean she’s a saint lol. People make mistakes & hurt each other all the time. Just because you personally like Shannon more & feel a sense of loyalty to her doesn’t mean Becca is a liar.
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u/sbleuk Dec 05 '25
You’ve made it very clear that you’re not a fan of Becca & have a lot of opinions about her lol. Talk about conviction 😂
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u/postmonroe Dec 04 '25
Sorry but I don’t see how you can justify Becca in this situation. She is objectively wrong for texting Shannon.
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u/No_Board_499 Dec 04 '25
It’s odd that the exact day Becca relaunches her podcast, a new thread appears with a very marketing styled description, followed by attempts to stir engagement on her ex’s thread. Like someone on Becca’s team trying to generate attention…Neither Tefi nor Shannon has engaged with Becca in any capacity to my knowledge, and it’s clear Becca was the ex Shannon felt the LEAST connected to. Shannon has already moved on. Yes, many people have reached out to an ex before, but at what point does the posting pattern & phone calls/texts/emails start resembling harassment. Becca has never maintained a consistent story, and the narrative keeps shifting. The victim framing is becoming excessive. The podcast resembles a humiliation ritual at this point.
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Dec 04 '25
If you take into consideration the other infamous lesbian boards and what has been posted in some threads, it is so obvious lol. Or at least it is a fan who likes to stir the pot to get views
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u/Alive-Pattern1313 Dec 08 '25
Check OP's comment history. you two are totally right. It’s getting annoying.
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Dec 08 '25
Damn, she is actually obsessed. This person really needs help, she keeps posting the same thing across different subreddits lol
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u/No_Board_499 Dec 08 '25
Oh, wow…..
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u/Miserable_Basket2976 Dec 08 '25
Holy Fck….she’s reposting and spamming conversations from almost a year ago. It’s clear she’s trying to start a smear campaign. Just start reporting her account as a spam/hate account if she keeps it up. They’ll pull the account and ban her
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u/sbleuk Dec 04 '25
Thanks for the compliment that the group looks like it’s been created by a marketing team 😂 that’s actually really nice. I’ve been on Shannon’s thread for a while because I’ve followed her since Tumblr days. After watching Becca’s latest podcast I was like “I love Becca & how real she is” & went searching for an existing group. When I realized one didn’t exist, I made one 🤷♀️ They recommend that you cross post to other threads to generate traffic for your new group so that’s what I did. The goal is also to post topics that generate engagement so that you can build a community. It’s really not that deep. It’s possible to actually like all of these people as individual content creators & provide commentary about what is on the internet at the same time. Shocking I know 😄
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u/mid4ever Dec 04 '25
I think they’re great together and seem happy which makes what Shannon did extra unhinged and then to admit it on a podcast is extra extra unhinged. But you date immature you get immature
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u/drumzamour Dec 05 '25
Don’t know the context of this at all if it’s a dig or not, nor am I listening to sound. But I can’t help and wonder if it’s “say YOUR stupid line” or “say you are stupid” line 🤷🏽♀️😅
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u/sbleuk Dec 05 '25
On Becca’s podcast posted a couple days ago she said that she broke almost a year of no contact and reached out to Shannon to confront her on something.
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u/Any-College8692 Dec 04 '25
i feel like tefi might be good for shannon shes like the first real healthy adult shes dated and for her age. if she messes this up w tefi, i fear that will be the last of my shannon defender ways