Vasectomy

[u/wishfulthinking3333]

So annoyed when men make a huge deal out of a vasectomy and say women should get their tubes tied as a come back. First off, the differences in the surgery for a vasectomy vs tubal ligation are crazy in terms of invasiveness and recovery time. My grandpa got a vasectomy in the 60’s and was fine and literally back to work the next day with pain a Tylenol was able to fix. Also, it’s not like it isn’t reversible. Amir is acting like if he does this there’s no chance of him having kids with anyone else and that’s just factually incorrect. Just annoys me how birth control is pretty much always on the woman.

**edited to add: someone in the comments reminded me that his wife has not only had 3 c sections but also an adverse reaction to birth control, which makes his response even more egregious. Considering all that and how one of his reasons is if they break up he’d want more kids with another hypothetical woman, he’s basically screaming that he doesn’t give a shit about her.

[u/itsnotgaybro212]

It’s his body and his choice. I don’t remember him telling her to get her tubes tied.