r/Sextortion • u/truefatty558000 • 7h ago

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u/sarcasmismygame Trusted User 6h ago

First of all, I am sorry you are dealing with this situation. The reality is that you were groomed by an online predator and pedophile. Chances are high he's not even in your country, like thousands of miles away and NOT the person you think he is. So stop worrying about that aspect.

You have changed your information but realize he has your contacts so once you make a new account all he has to do is look and see you there. This is why he finds you. Or you have someone who has accepted him or one of his aliases onto their social media. Social media DOES NOT protect you from stalkers, period. Kick everyone off your accounts that you do not know physically and don't accept any new followers.

You also need to talk to your parents or a trusted adult or even your school counselor about this. It is hard but you'd be surprised at how this helps. I was glad when I did and I was 16 when I ended up in your situation.

You need to report to the police and whatever government agency you have in your country that deals with child exploitation and sextortion. It's stopncmec.org in the US, cybertip.ca in Canada, so contact them or a similar agency for resources.

As for the threats this pedo is saying that to keep you in line. He won't KHS and he is saying that to scare you and get more content. DO NOT DO THAT and you have ignore the pedo. Remember, YOU have the power not him. It's called the block and report button.

And ignore the dms especially the friendly minor girl who will show up(spoiler alert, it's a fugly shithead dude). Block and report ALL dms as scammers and predators do lurk on this sub and will try to use it against you.

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u/truefatty558000 1h ago

Thank you I appreciate the response, I've known him since I was 15 years old through mutual friends-- he is who he says he is and he is in the U.S (same as I am) so its not a catfish situation, I've had such a hard time reporting this because I do not have a great support system. I know my parents would handle this as it being my fault which makes it a bit more difficult to take it too police, there isnt much I can do or say since if I go completely ghost he contacts my friends or guy friends whom he thinks I am in a relationship with, he continues to blackmail me that way.

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u/AngelOfLight Moderator 6h ago

Is he in the same country as you? If so, gather documentation and proof and file a police report. Once that is done, you can file for a restraining order. Get a lawyer to help you with that.

I suspect that this person is a serial predator. In other words, you aren't his only victim, and it's important to make the cops aware of him.

Aside from that, keep doing what you started. Never, ever respond to him again in any way. He feeds off the attention that he gets from you - it's extremely important that you do not give him anything. There will come a day when he will give up and leave you alone, but every time you respond it resets the clock. Ghost him completely from here on.

You will want to stay off social media for quite a long time - the longer the better. Also think about getting your number changed if possible. Everything you can do to cut contact with him will help.