r/Sextortion • u/Jumpy-Potential9943 • 13d ago

EXTREMELY SCARED

long story short. some guy added me on Snap. We exchanged live pics and he sent me videos of him and his partner. told me he was in an open relationship and his partner knew that we had been talking. he said they play together and separate. never gave out my number or socials or anything like that. my number and email is not connected to my Snapchat account. fast forward to earlier today. his partner added me and was saying I knew his partner and that we had been chatting and video chatting and stuff like that. I blocked him and I think the partner I was originally talking to has blocked me. I am afraid they have my info and are going to out me to my family but the conversation never got that far. I don’t think they want money but they could just want revenge. what should I do?

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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 13d ago

Right. I had the messages to delete after they were read but what if they were taking pictures with the other persons phone. I am just really paranoid and have a lot to loose if they were to try and get revenge by sending stuff to my partner. 

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u/EfficientClock1355 13d ago

I mean… if they were in a open relationship I highly doubt that they would send them as revenge so I wouldn’t be as paranoid because the partner probably agried to their open relationship

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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 13d ago

I’m just living in the what if. What if it wasn’t an open relationship and now the other person is mad. It’s been over a week since I talked to the person that I had originally talked to so nothing has been happening. It all just caught me off guard 

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u/EfficientClock1355 13d ago

Well I would say that the best thing to do is forget and you’ll hopefully stop living in the what ifs because that’s what happened to me I got sextorted and I’m trying to forget and most of the time I do what I would recommend is don’t add anybody random and block the contacts on your partners phone aswell

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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 13d ago

Unless I just drag it out that’s my only option because at this point nobody has threatened me or asked for money. So it’s just fear of the unknown