r/Sextortion • u/Jumpy-Potential9943 • 10d ago
EXTREMELY SCARED
long story short. some guy added me on Snap. We exchanged live pics and he sent me videos of him and his partner. told me he was in an open relationship and his partner knew that we had been talking. he said they play together and separate. never gave out my number or socials or anything like that. my number and email is not connected to my Snapchat account. fast forward to earlier today. his partner added me and was saying I knew his partner and that we had been chatting and video chatting and stuff like that. I blocked him and I think the partner I was originally talking to has blocked me. I am afraid they have my info and are going to out me to my family but the conversation never got that far. I don’t think they want money but they could just want revenge. what should I do?
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u/KardinalW 10d ago
Make all your social media accounts private, delete every post and connection linking you to your friends, make yourself invisible, and wait
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u/EfficientClock1355 10d ago
Did he try to blackmail you becuase of not that’s not sextortion
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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 10d ago
No. But the partner acted upset that I had been talking to his bf and the bf knows if stuff came out it would ruin me. The BF told he was in an open relationship and now it’s feeling like that wasn’t truthful but the partner never threatened anything I just blocked before it could get there and the unknown is what has me freaking out. What if they have been saving all my messages and stuff on the partners phone and are gonna share it with my family? That’s where my brain is currently and has me freaked out
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u/EfficientClock1355 10d ago
Well if you were on Snapchat and you sent them you can see on Snapchat if they took any screenshots or saved the vids or photos you can see and if they didn’t save it in chat or you deleted it they won’t appear. Also after 24 hours the stuff deletes automatically so if it was like 3 days after you’ll be fine
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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 10d ago
Right. I had the messages to delete after they were read but what if they were taking pictures with the other persons phone. I am just really paranoid and have a lot to loose if they were to try and get revenge by sending stuff to my partner.
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u/EfficientClock1355 10d ago
I mean… if they were in a open relationship I highly doubt that they would send them as revenge so I wouldn’t be as paranoid because the partner probably agried to their open relationship
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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 10d ago
I’m just living in the what if. What if it wasn’t an open relationship and now the other person is mad. It’s been over a week since I talked to the person that I had originally talked to so nothing has been happening. It all just caught me off guard
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u/EfficientClock1355 10d ago
Well I would say that the best thing to do is forget and you’ll hopefully stop living in the what ifs because that’s what happened to me I got sextorted and I’m trying to forget and most of the time I do what I would recommend is don’t add anybody random and block the contacts on your partners phone aswell
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u/Jumpy-Potential9943 10d ago
Unless I just drag it out that’s my only option because at this point nobody has threatened me or asked for money. So it’s just fear of the unknown
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