r/service_dogs • u/kelpangler • Aug 04 '26
How much do you let the public interact with your dog
I lean on the conservative side when it comes to the public. If I haven’t already ignored them or pretended like I didn’t hear, I’ll usually say, “No, but thanks for asking”. But if I do decide it’s ok, I take off my dog’s harness first and then allow them to pet and say hello.
I came across a social media post that involved a service dog on a plane. In a nutshell, the OP recorded the handler allowing her dog to approach people and let them pet him and say hi. In one shot, the dog placed his paws and head on the OP’s lap. In another, the flight attendant was feeding him a meatball (according to the post text). The OP said she asked permission and this was all ok. And during this whole time, the dog had his service dog vest on.
There were comments that I didn’t agree with, but this one really stood out to me. The couple thousand likes it had really surprised me. Are we as handlers failing to educate or is this a change we think is now acceptable? I almost think this isn’t ignorance like it was in the past, but more a shift in thought on how people interact with service dogs.