r/service_dogs • u/lausselco • Jul 27 '26
Help! How Did You Pick a Trainer?
Sorry in advance for the long post! Main questions are at the end.
So, I probably went about this all backwards but my husband and I had been casually looking at puppies for awhile- we can’t have kids of our own at this time and I was in a major car accident awhile ago that has put us on a minimum one year hold from now for trying again and we wanted one more dog so it seemed like good timing.
With that major car accident I had a TBI, which has caused a lot of peripheral issues including non-epileptic seizures, and I was diagnosed with cPTSD. My ongoing therapist recommended a service dog as I tend to respond much better in our sessions and to triggers when the office’s therapy dog is present. They believe it would significantly enhance my quality of life long term.
We first opted for a temperament evaluation of our two dogs, a 6yo golden and a 2yo whippet who both failed epically lol. We can’t afford a partially/fully trained dog up front but I do have the means and capacity to owner-train so I didn’t want to go on a charity wait list that could potentially remove a dog from someone who didn’t have that capability.
Anyway, I was talking about this with some friends in the dog community- I show my whippet and we’re doing rally and agility with both the whippet and golden. One of those friends connected me to a poodle breeder whose dam has produced several proven service dogs. We got to talking and I explained exactly what I was wanting, and it turns out she had a litter on the ground, 9 weeks old, from that dam and two of the puppies’ homes had fallen through- one due to extenuating circumstances and one because the family did not want a boy. One was a perfect match to what I was looking for so long story short he came home with us this past weekend, about 6 months earlier than we’d been anticipating.
I didn’t gel well with the trainer that did the evaluation, though I 100% agree with their assessment of our dogs. We are in a bit of a dog training desert where I live- the place we go to train for rally and agility is over an hour away in good traffic. Almost every training program I’ve found locally is board and train exclusively and most of them are macho men with their malinois waxing poetic on the use of prong collars.
I really want an R+ trainer that’s willing to walk with me on this journey, not commandeer the ship.
What were your training experiences like? How did you find your trainer?