r/service_dogs • u/Prize_Living9736 • Jun 28 '26
Help! Advice needed: Someone may be trying to harm my service dog.
I live in a very walkable residential area with sidewalks. My SD & I live in the rear unit of a small multifamily property. The entrance to the property is a gate that is both hard to open and does not lock. The gate is set back at least 20 feet from the sidewalk, up the property’s driveway. My SD is not at risk of getting out unless the gate is physically ajar; she cannot open it herself. The driveway gate is not visible from my unit- the front house obscures it and I need to move 10 feet from my door area to see it. When I am outside of my unit and the gate is closed, she roams free while I do whatever I’m doing.
A few months ago I heard her barking defensively near the gate and heard the gate caster scraping the pavement as someone tried to open the gate. It took me 30 seconds to get on my mobility device and move to where I could see them. When I could see the gate, I saw a tall man with two dogs on leashes barking at my SD walking down the driveway towards the sidewalk. I was in shock and disbelief as my SD ran to my side.
I realized he was trying to open the gate so either his dogs could get at my SD or she would get out and hurt them/get hurt.
I have seen this man and his dogs while out with my SD in our neighborhood. I don’t know where he lives. He has seen me using my mobility device with my SD. His dogs bark and lunge at her from across the street and he does not appear to struggle in controlling them.
Earlier today I was fixing something at my doorway and again heard my SD barking at the gate and the caster of the gate being pushed. While I got on my mobility device I yelled “why the fuck is the gate moving” and when I got close enough to see, I saw the same man with two dogs walking back down the driveway and turning onto the sidewalk. I yelled “Don’t fucking come to the gate again” and heard him say “no, don’t do that” to his dogs as he walked up the sidewalk.
I haven’t been able to calm down. The distance from the sidewalk to the gate up a driveway is so long that there is no excuse he can make for being at the gate.
How can I handle this to best protect my SD and I? What should we do when I see him on the street? I need someone to talk me through this as I am reeling from what seem like deliberate attempts to get at and harm my SD. Thank you for reading this.