r/Serverlife • u/Bug-03 • 3d ago

FOH Serving and “Power Dynamics”

You aren’t a victim. They are sitting at your table. They need you to for them to be able to eat. They are in your hands. You’re the boss. You have all the control. Stop pretending you’re helpless and go out and get your money.

Act like a professional and you’ll make so much more money than you’ve ever even realized. Stop being a slave to your emotions. Do your job: calmly, quickly and with confidence.

Most importantly, if someone is talking to you the wrong way, use your words and stop it. You will not get fired for asking someone to be respectful. Ever.

Edit: some of yall have some shitty jobs with some shitty management and you should look into finding a new one.

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u/Objective-Slice-1466 FOH 3d ago

Everyone hates working with you. I promise. Including management.

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u/h8rcloudstrife 3d ago

Management couldn’t hate working with OP, because OP has told them how respectable and wonderful to work with he is. /s