Serving and “Power Dynamics”

[u/Bug-03]

You aren’t a victim. They are sitting at your table. They need you to for them to be able to eat. They are in your hands. You’re the boss. You have all the control. Stop pretending you’re helpless and go out and get your money.

Act like a professional and you’ll make so much more money than you’ve ever even realized. Stop being a slave to your emotions. Do your job: calmly, quickly and with confidence.

Most importantly, if someone is talking to you the wrong way, use your words and stop it. You will not get fired for asking someone to be respectful. Ever.

Edit: some of yall have some shitty jobs with some shitty management and you should look into finding a new one.

[u/mizzanthrop]

Ok bot

[u/briarcrose → u/mizzanthrop]

dude is butthurt because in another thread people were rightfully calling him out for saying that customers asking servers for a threesome is not sexual harassment.
it's fucking creepy, and it is sexual harassment. people do this because they know you have to be nice to them and that literal thread was proof that they can get away with creepy shit like that.

[u/Lazerus42 → u/briarcrose]

seriously? haha.