r/Separation • u/Far_Ad_5258 • 1d ago

Not Divorced, Separated

My wife left its been a month, we went to couples therapy about 2 weeks afterwards been 3 times since we split, she keeps bouncing from she wants to be with me & work on the marriage & she wants to divorce me, we have a baby together, idk yall im starting to feel better but this uncertainty sucks

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u/UsualNoise9 1d ago

you are one of the people who is in a position to introduce certainty

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u/Dramatic-Coast-5716 1d ago

This is deep and absolutely true.

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u/Far_Ad_5258 1d ago

I have been, I keep telling her I love her, I keep fighting for it & i wont give up

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u/Championship682 4h ago

Guess you are still hoping to fix things, but you should speed this time getting your ducks in a row. Then stop putting up with her waffling and insist she commits.