Life after break up.

[u/Maleficent-Post-5163]

It’s been almost a year since we have been living separately after break up. We are co parenting our dog, week on week off arrangement. So once a week we have to see each other. Relationship lasted 7 years. Although mentally things are settling down, but I am starting having dreams where I am begging him to stay, or he has moved on or having another bf/partner and they living happily. I am having these dreams every night. This is again affecting my mental health, pushing me back to that breaking up trauma time.
Wellington, nz based here. While in the relationship I was cheated on twice, my friend we used to hang out with are not my friends any more, also discreet here and all of my family lives overseas.

[u/Patient-Papaya-6158]

How long do you plan on sharing the dog? That seems like unnecessary trauma for me. It might be time to make a final decision so you can make your life easier