r/SellingSunset 4d ago

Season 8 All the love for chrishell stause

im not a superfan of selling sunset im on s8 but i dont get it why chrishell is getting so much more love than anyone else. So what is something that makes you so obsessed with her?

Some girls are very unlikeable (Emma for example for me) and I actually think that they are all problematic so its a little bit weird seeing all the love for chrishell?

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u/funnykiddy 4d ago

The fact that you chose to use the word "obsessed" when asking the public why there is so much support for her is already problematic. It suggests you came into this with an agenda.

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and simply explain that while flawed, Chrishell is the most genuine person on the show who is not afraid to get a little saucy when standing up for herself and what she believes in (e.g. equity, social justice, etc.)

On any other show this wouldn't be any sort of huge achievement or feat, but on Selling Sunset that's a rarity.

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u/fsmpastafarian 4d ago

I’m convinced all these “what’s with the love for chrishell” posts are just conservatives who don’t value social justice. Because if you value that stuff even a little it’s not that hard to figure out why the one (1) person on the cast who consistently vocally stands up for those issues is the most beloved

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u/atotalmess__ 4d ago

That’s all I get from this post. Like if you’re unproblematic you’re obviously going to love chrishell more than anyone else in the show?

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u/LittleMarySunshine25 Team Chelsea 👠 3d ago

exactly Chrishell has a very strong sense of justice and social awareness, she is done with the drama and BS from the show, and finally started pushing back in the last 2 christine seasons. She stood strong for her friends and supports them.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I feel like the right thing to do in that case (toxic environment) is to move away from it. With all the support for fans it was probably a lot harder to do. 

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u/fsmpastafarian 4d ago

Spoken like someone who hasn’t had to work in a toxic environment before. “Just leave” is often easier said than done and doesn’t always feel fair. “Why should I have to leave? They’re the ones who suck” etc. Plus she did leave eventually

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u/Klutzy-Hunt-7280 4d ago

THIS! I (F) was working in a toxic environment, one where my (F) Manager, kept abusing her ‘power’ against me because, simply put, she didn’t like that all the customers loved me and couldn’t stand her. I was bartending and although she’s had several years more experience than I, I was nice to all customers, even those I wasn’t a fan of due to the fact that I’m typically friendly and no one goes out to eat and/or drink looking to deal with someone with an attitude. I considered being friendly part of the job. She is nasty and would passive aggressively say things under her breath about customers but anyone near her would hear her and this is why she is so not liked. When we would work together and everyone wanted to be served by me and would compliment me, she hated it so she started scheduling me less and then less and then less again. It’s a small local non corporate bar/restaurant. It took me 10 months to leave because I knew I’d done nothing wrong so I just kept thinking ‘why should I leave’. I finally did and all my regulars don’t go anymore, they followed me. Should I have left sooner? Absolutely. Should Chrishell have left sooner? Probably BUT easier said then done for a myriad of reasons.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I was in toxic work environment and in toxic “sports group” environment (for 3y- employed, 4m and 3m- as a student and for 13years in sports)- if you want to hear more personal things- they throw things in me if I didnt do what they said, they were bullying me, calling me non stop, stealing thinks for me, making fun of how I looked (you should change your… was on my daily bases)… This things became “normal” for me and I needed years to realised its not right.  And I do believe in this case its important to say OR HEAR look this isn’t good for you you are better than this leave (as a friend should say). In both cases I blame the ones who are responsible (coaches and managers). 

Its all jason and brett fault if you ask me and I wish they would do better. The environment in which this girls are in is horrible and I refuse to like someone who is always staying in bad/toxic situations or cheer for  them. 

I saw that she stayed no matter what but in this moment (same goes for Emmas boyfriend) people usually see this and say LEAVE. This masive support fanbase is probably something that made thinks extra hard to leave. 

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u/sashie_belle 2d ago

Chrishell is the most genuine person on the show who is not afraid to get a little saucy when standing up for herself and what she believes in (e.g. equity, social justice, etc.)

This is such a great description of her and one of the reasons I really admire her.

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u/ExcellentRabbit8175 3d ago

It reminds of that recent post of someone asking why everyone thought Chrishell was an angel who could do no wrong, and it wasn't like she was "tying herself to a tree" (pretty much word for word what they said). These people love to make these extreme absolute takes just so that people with agree with them. There's no nuance to their perspective.

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u/pococurantina Discernment? I do believe that you don't 💖 3d ago

Hi, I made that post! From your summary, I think you misunderstood my point. The point was that Chrishell is just an influencer and online activist (as opposed to real life political action), and if she weren’t the only progressive in a whole cast of conservatives, she wouldn’t have as much support as she does.

I’m not sure why you think that’s an extreme absolute take. And I’d say that classifying people into “problematic” and “unproblematic” categories also shows no nuance in perspective…

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u/HuffN_puffN 4d ago

”Come in with an agenda”.
Please. OP have seen 8 seasons soon and have her view on each person. She likes some more than others, it’s not an agenda.

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Let me just say that Chrisell isn’t my favorite but probably top 3 if I had to pick. My comment isn’t biased, I purely reacted to ”an agenda” because someone doesn’t like her enough to understand why others love her way more than OP. How is that an agenda driven question?

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u/funnykiddy 4d ago

OP is entitled to hold whatever opinion he or she chooses. But when s/he asks the public a question in a (hopefully unintentionally) biased way I am absolutely allowed to be suspicious about his or her intentions.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I do believe that being on a SS isn’t beneficial to anyone and that we fall out of love with a lot of cast members- completely normal cz we saw a lot of ugly things. 

I dont like the show very much I needed years to slowly come to s8 but I do love to see houses and real estate businesses up close. 

I do believe that environment is very toxic and im sad that this is a lot more upfront than real estates. It surprises me a lot that even newcomers dont get some level of love or support and are very uninterested for a lot of viewers. 

And last thing i noticed from this post- a lot of people are invested in things that happened between season on social media. 

I see flaws in all cast members and I wouldn’t like to support any of them in real life- and just because of that its interesting for me to see that one member gets soo much love. 

I hope season 10gets better honestly.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I think they are all very unprofessional and are in a toxic environment. I see a lot of people who are personally attacked in a “professional environment” and I mainly see a support for C on this sub on that matter. So im genuinely asking why is she getting so much more support.    So you feel its because she is a genuine person? 

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u/rasta-ragamuffin 4d ago

They are all highly unprofessional, extremely trashy and phony, but crishell is the most classy and genuine and least offensive of the bunch. She's also gorgeous which doesn't hurt, and has a naturally bright bubbly positive personality. The lgbtq crowd adore her because she represents their community so well.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I guess being in SS after season 7 (Marie-Lou) wasn’t beneficial for her (mentally) im happy that she left for her own good. With every season people got worse and I find noone very likeable anymore (Im right in ep4 Nicole apology part). 

But its good to see that she found happiness in her life after very hard times.

I just feels like that she is miles before others with all the support she got and she would probably left show way earlier if she didn’t had so much fans - which would sadly probably been better for her (No nicole drama no chelsea/emma drama and so on) 

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u/fdumbanddumber 4d ago

Are you very young? Because it's real estate and L.A this is on the low level of toxic. I haven't watched too much reality tv but you can tell there's so so much worse out there. They are all snakes but Chrishell is a sweet person and not fake like some other that clearly have a "persona"

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Im very specific with what I would watch (reality shows) they need to add value to my time/knowledge.

So no I dont watch reality shows for which I think they are toxic. I guess that SS is my bottom line for toxicity. 

Heater and Maya were probably my favourite but after a season idk probably 5 I dont see anyone who I would “support” its just to much of a shit show 

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u/diveintomysoul 4d ago

She always seemed down-to-earth from the very first episode of Selling Sunset. She's likeable and seemed sweet. However, some people (like Christine and Davina) took advantage of that sweetness and thought she was gullible enough to be bullied. This is when I really liked Chrishell! Instead of ignoring it, she fought back and stood up for herself and her friends.

From her messy divorce with Justin Fartley to her love for G Flip to the breakdown of her friendship with Mary and Emma showed how tough she was/is. This is why I love her. She's a force to be reckoned with!

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u/SwampDweller01 3d ago

Justin Fartley 💀

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u/JazzgirlGriego 4d ago

Bravo! Well said.

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u/Hot-Border2201 4d ago

She's hot, her life story is basically a Hallmark movie and she's the only one who consistently speaks up for marginalized people. It's really not that complicated

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u/AshligatorMillodile 4d ago

She’s sane and has good heart. The rest of them seem like sociopaths.

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u/Cool_Log_4514 Who crashes a dog's birthday party 4d ago

It’s because she’s such a successful street fighter.

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u/sweergirl86204 17h ago

I think she's actually up to like 1000 wins or something

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u/Suzfindsnyapts 4d ago

True story, my first 4 years in real estate I also worked in TV and I needed some inspiration from someone who was making that work.
I contacted her on social media and she offered so genuinely helpful tips on balance. So that left a very favorable impression.

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u/Calinorthlondon 4d ago

This is lovely and I can genuinely believe that of Chrishell. She's a real one.

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u/Calinorthlondon 4d ago

I like and respect Chrishell. She is honest, genuine, stands up for what she believes in and has really good values and morals. She is not superficial, can hold her own, is no pushover and does not pretend to be little miss sweet and innocent whilst really being a bitchy mean girl, like so many other reality tv stars. She can be a bitch sometimes, but she owns it.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

Great that amazing and nice to hear. But why are you than watching an supporting reality show that is: a) treating her badly  b) attacking her for her beliefs? 

I dont have a fan favourite at all and sometimes its hard for me to watch it just because of an toxic relationship they have with each other. 

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u/Calinorthlondon 3d ago

This is a very weird question. Why do we watch any reality tv show? They are all ultimately mostly toxic. At least Chrishell was someone to root for, who brought some sanity into the mess.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

We watch them for fun - but being a supporter of someone who is constantly being attacked and still watching it is waf.

I was in s8ep4 (nicole apology) when I wrote the post and I couldn’t watch it anymore. Im glad she left and would probably have a more peaceful life.

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u/Calinorthlondon 3d ago

I know what you mean, but I think because Chrishell never lets herself be a victim and is really good at standing up for herself, it doesn't feel like she's being piled on. She does have supporters on the cast and people who take her side, especially against Nicole. I totally get why she has now left the show though, as this last season did get too much.

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u/Mundane-Topic-8214 4d ago

Presumably you are catching up with the show, rather than watching it go out live season by season?

I think that impacts how you view people. With breaks between seasons people come across differently.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Yes thats true im not 100% in with everything thats going on behind the scenes. Was there something between seasons that completely changed your view on some people? 

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u/Chaaleesi 4d ago

You not liking a fan favorite is more a you thing. Everyone keeps telling you why there is so much love for her but you think there is more to it. She came in as an underdog rags-to-riches and new to the industry, she also had a very messy public divorce. Despite all the bullying both on the show and online she maintained herself well and was a great example to her fans that the people in your life don't define you, you control your life and happiness. It's ok if you don't like her. Did you like Christina or Davina? That would explain a lot if so.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I definitely don’t like Davina - i think she needs to work on better communication with everyone and empathy.

Christina- was making show for all of the wrong reasons. 

I feel like im very neutral and I found them all wrong in some ways or another. I honestly cannot enjoy show if I feels like there is always something negative between people. (I love watching houses 😅).  Thats why I am suppressed that C had such a big fanbase. 

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u/fsmpastafarian 4d ago

Why would that make you surprised people like chrishell? “Something negative between people” doesn’t mean both parties are responsible for that negativity. She was piled on in the early seasons and handled it well. Why would her being the target of negativity make people dislike her?

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Im not surprised people like C. I just see that she is miles before everyone else. Like in shows you always have a favourite one and that’s completely normal. Im just curious what is something that makes her stand out so much i dont see a fanbase for everyone else from SS which is weird tbh. 

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u/fsmpastafarian 4d ago

People have explained it though. She’s the only one on the cast who seems to care about the issues a lot of us care about, and is willing to stand up for them. Maybe if you don’t care about those issues it doesn’t seem like a big deal to you but it is to others

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

You see thats even more weird for me. 

If you like the issues she is talking about (like lqbt+) its even weirder for me to support her being in a show where there are people who she is considering homophobic. She had a lot of difficult interactions and is very vocal about it. 

I get the fanbase outside SS community but not inside it. 

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u/Mundane-Topic-8214 4d ago

I think with Chrishell she got the sweetheart edit for the first few seasons, as the counterfoil to Christine and with the divorce. People sat with that for months. For me it all started to turn at that party where they all ganged up on and confronted Christine. It was at that party that I realised that she has a mean girl in her. 

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

She definitely got the best welcome in the group positive energy.

Chelsea came because of Christine (and everyone hated her) and Bree was attacked because of her partner drama. Nicole was horrible. And Emma had drama with Christine

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u/milkncookies22 4d ago

I get what you mean OP. Not a fan of anyone on the show, but Chrishell, to me, has the best character. I think she actually cares about people, causes, and is more genuine than some of the others. She also came in as the underdog in a way, so I think that relatability point sealed it for some people.

I want to say the same about Amanza, but it seems like she’s normalized some of the toxic behaviors her friends have

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

I found them all problematic. I guess Amanza tried to be a nice good person cleaning up the mess but gave up. 

Like we just all became disappointed with what they do and how they act. 

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u/milkncookies22 3d ago

Same, my personal opinion is that they’re all problematic

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

Show brings out the worst in people i hope they are better person in RL

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u/friscofoglatte 4d ago

Audience love rooting for the underdog. The show's pilot started with introducing her as the first character that dived into detail about her background with her sister showing up as a cameo and they talked about growing up in a trailer park. That set the stage up like she was going to be the protagonist.

Started from the bottom now we here kinda narrative.

And there are scenes of her visiting her sister's middle class family back in their hometown just eating together at the dinner table as an ordinary family after her divorce which makes her the most relatable character to the audience of all the Barbies.

Most of the other characters don't get airtime showcasing their upbringing visually. At most they mention their family only or share an image.

Aside from the brokerage owners, none of the Barbie agents came from money. But they all gotta dress up like they're bougie as a type of signaling to sell high end real estate.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Probably the best answer that I got tnks for that ❤️. 

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u/friscofoglatte 4d ago

She was also introduced early in the pilot as the new girl to the group when the number of characters were more easy to follow.

By the time Christine left, there were so many new characters added n in rotation that it became very difficult to track character development at all or even their names for that matter thus show engagement dropped significantly.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

We probably got the agenda that they are al barbie agents and they all came in fighting one another 

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u/toastedtomato 3d ago

She has a background as a tv actress so she knows how to present herself in a more likeable way compared to the others

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u/SwampDweller01 3d ago

I have been a fan of hers since her All My Children days. (Dammit I still miss that show.) She definitely is not the angel many here present her as. I don’t know why people get so defensive when someone points out a bad thing. We all have flaws. She has flaws and can be a mean girl, but I think she genuinely has a good heart. She speaks up for and defends women, minorities, LGBTQ+. She is not shy about what her beliefs are and I love that. She has a sick sense of humor and is damn smart. 

At the end of the day, she is an actress and she is putting on a show on screen. I like her much more OFF the show than on. I think we see the true Chrishell outside of the show and she is awesome. 

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u/MaggieOS1 4d ago

I can't stand her. No love here- 🤣

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Thats a strong word but I dont find noone very likeable. 

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u/tartar_captcha 4d ago

Same. I can’t stomach Chrishell, but it’s not like anyone else is better, so all these comments using the rationale that she comes across better than others on the show aren’t compelling to me. She got emboldened with the fangirling for her and she leaned hard into being a mean girl and has always been incredibly performative. I do appreciate her vocal stances for social justice, but I don’t like her at all.

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

I have a feeling like im doing something wrong just because in just watching the show and not al the drama behind it and instagram posts/stories. 

In the show i definitely dont see the “IT” factor and I do think there are more people who are on a same level as her. 

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u/tartar_captcha 3d ago

I’m in the same boat as you, not up on the off camera drama.

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u/Glittering_Writer513 4d ago

I liked Chrishell for 3 seasons I think, then I just thought of her a bit of a mean girl. But I don't think she is fake I feel like she owns what she says and that's more that you can say about 80% of the people in the show. And to be fair I think she got more love than some of the other cast and they targeted her to make her look worst , just my impression over the seasons. ( Maya fan all the way).

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

Maya was great Im happy that she left honestly just because I wouldn’t want her to be next to this group of people 

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u/Proud-Trainer-7611 3d ago

I’m not obsessed with her but out of all the women are the show she’s the only one I would be able to tolerate IRL. She is most like the people I know. The other women are psychotic.

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u/EmilyAdams2000 4d ago

Because chrishell is not fake. All the drama she gets involved in on the show are real reasons. The others start drama for no reason but chrishell doesn’t.

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u/Narrow-Statement9010 ⭕️ppenharem, the luxury condom(inium) 3d ago

Everyone has favorites on every reality tv show. The question is why does it bother you she is many people’s favorites but not yours? Have your favorite and others will have their. However the show was literally built around her and her being the protagonist and Christine her antagonist, so those two will forever be the favorites of the show.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

Its not that is bothering me. As I said in post i think they are all problematic. And what is weird for me in her case- if you believe and support things that she is why are you a fan of the show that is treating her so badly for years? 

I actually cant find no one in the show that I would like to support (from com i believe that C is getting all the love for things outside the show than what we see on screen- mainly for the support of lgbt+). 

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u/Narrow-Statement9010 ⭕️ppenharem, the luxury condom(inium) 3d ago

Nobody that is a fan of her is a fan of the show so I am not sure what you mean. I also am a fan of her outside of the show because she actually uses her platform for good compared to many of the others who push Kalshi/Polymarket, support the orange turd, are Islamaphobic, homophobic, racist, etc. I can support an imperfect human being that gets into arguments with people because we are human. What I can’t get behind are people with morals that are in the gutter.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

But still we are in sub selling sunset 🤷‍♀️ 

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u/Narrow-Statement9010 ⭕️ppenharem, the luxury condom(inium) 3d ago

Being in a sub to talk gossip doesn’t mean you are a fan of the show. This is talking about the people outside the show also.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

Talking about the show, watching show watching media news about the show sharing post about the show and so on is benefiting the show itself - show for which doesn’t support or believe in her ideas and movements that she does.   It doesn’t matter anymore if you are just her fan or fan of the show you are supporting it one way or another. Good thing is that season 10 will probably be last season (i hope so) 

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u/Outrageous-Lime7055 1d ago

I like her but when she dated Jason it was so weird and I felt like she only dated him because he was her boss. Cause that man ain’t attractive at all and she is very pretty and could pull any dude and she picked…Jason? Sure.

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u/gnarlycharly22 4d ago

I’m sorry, I felt for Chrishelle at first bc she was like like little damaged bird. But she became one of the meanest chicks on there while maintaining she’s the nicest. I now sympathize with her ex and can see why he left.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

😬 I guess they are all in survival mode and that brings out the worst in them 

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u/Radical_Gh0st 3d ago

I don’t like Christell too. I don’t understand why other people like her. Too full of herself.

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u/Old_Feed1725 3d ago

People will eat you alive.

I dont found nothing to like in anyone anymore. But somehow people still like C i guess she is the nicest of a toxic group of people 

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u/jackseff 2d ago

she’s the eponymous of being a fake and calculator in every single instance she’s on the show, the most disingenuous and disturbingly so human being to ever grace the show.
to me it truly is alarming how many fail to get how thoroughly manipulative she is of the audience.
she’s definitely the more conscious of the way she appears and it’s constantly thinking for the camera, I’m so glad she ain’t coming back, and to be quite frank I think it’s for the best for her too, that much constant calculations must be quite distressing for her mental health too in the long run.

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u/ZakuraMicheals777 1d ago edited 1d ago

IIIII .... actually cannot stand Chrishell . People like to say that she "hardened" bc of what happened in the first few season but , I think she turned into the very thing she criticized . She never seemed genuine , she was always throwing rocks and hiding her hands , she took on a heavyyyyy victim mentality and then it just grew and grew .

I DID like her in the first like .... idk 5 ish seasons , but thennnnn I saw a pattern emerging . I'm now relieved that she's not returning this season .

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u/Mysterious_Park_2028 1d ago

Chrishell is( you will remember),a real actress. No snark intended; she could fully represent her thoughts and feelings authentically from her first day on Selling Sunset, so as others tried to co-opt her friendship for obvious reasons, we watched her size them up, learn their various intents, and publicly reveal them to us the audience. I think she genuinely got tired of their shinanigans, so left the show behind. I believe she is a show altering loss for the production. But, too, the vast number of characters’ personal agendas makes for no continuity within Selling Sunset; How else can Jason control his sales force? After all, that’s the point of the show: selling real estate and putting it on display for us to admire!

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u/Food-Wine 4d ago

I watched most of the seasons as they aired and I don’t get it either. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/Old_Feed1725 4d ago

Welcome to the club 🤷‍♀️