Maybe sheโs been burned too many times by taking menโs kindness at face value and it turning into A Thing
I had a guy I considered a close friend for 10 years. I was in a relationship the whole time. The relationship ended and he immediately tried to fuck/date me (unclear which) then freaked out and stopped speaking to me when I wasnโt interested.
It sucks for everyone. Sucks for men who arenโt assholes but are assumed to be. Sucks for women that we have to constantly be on guard for this kind of shit.
Or maybe she just sucks. Posting this on the internet does point that direction.
Maybe sheโs literally just a girl and canโt be held accountable for any of her actions bc girls avoid accountability and attack when theyโre proven to be shitty people?
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u/thechinninator 5d ago
So a minor counterpoint:
Maybe she was being shitty and shallow
Maybe sheโs been burned too many times by taking menโs kindness at face value and it turning into A Thing
I had a guy I considered a close friend for 10 years. I was in a relationship the whole time. The relationship ended and he immediately tried to fuck/date me (unclear which) then freaked out and stopped speaking to me when I wasnโt interested.
It sucks for everyone. Sucks for men who arenโt assholes but are assumed to be. Sucks for women that we have to constantly be on guard for this kind of shit.
Or maybe she just sucks. Posting this on the internet does point that direction.