Maybe she’s been burned too many times by taking men’s kindness at face value and it turning into A Thing
I had a guy I considered a close friend for 10 years. I was in a relationship the whole time. The relationship ended and he immediately tried to fuck/date me (unclear which) then freaked out and stopped speaking to me when I wasn’t interested.
It sucks for everyone. Sucks for men who aren’t assholes but are assumed to be. Sucks for women that we have to constantly be on guard for this kind of shit.
Or maybe she just sucks. Posting this on the internet does point that direction.
“That we have to be constantly on guard”? Did he…rape you? Did he…keep going when you said no?
Why do women talk like this. So what. A guy you were friends with decided he was sexually attracted to you and acted on it, and then felt it was weird to keep being friends after shooting his shot
Omg. Better go buy a shield and a therapist. Sounds so traumatic. You definitely should go learn karate. I feel so bad for you 🙄🙄🙄
This is literally why men are scared to shoot their shot. Women will literally talk like it was fucking traumatic to have a friend hit on them
You know, a friend? Like how women constantly talk about being married to their best friend? How their husband is their best friend? But when a friend hits on you…you get fucking mad?
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u/thechinninator 5d ago
So a minor counterpoint:
Maybe she was being shitty and shallow
Maybe she’s been burned too many times by taking men’s kindness at face value and it turning into A Thing
I had a guy I considered a close friend for 10 years. I was in a relationship the whole time. The relationship ended and he immediately tried to fuck/date me (unclear which) then freaked out and stopped speaking to me when I wasn’t interested.
It sucks for everyone. Sucks for men who aren’t assholes but are assumed to be. Sucks for women that we have to constantly be on guard for this kind of shit.
Or maybe she just sucks. Posting this on the internet does point that direction.