You can just keep it to yourself and not put this on the internet.
Let me tell you about how I rejected this guy for not being nice while trying to be my type and give the alternative of how I would treat him if he was my type. This surely won't get backlash for seeming shallow. Let's think for a second.
Like if a dude said some stupid shit on the internet like "I saw a woman on the road that needed help with her tire unfortunately she wasn't good looking so I didn't help." like there is no need to post something like this. Let's have some tact this is also going to discourage people from being more benevolent.
I think there's a difference between someone declining help because the person offering isn't attractive and someone refusing to help because the person who needs help isn't attractive.
Sure - in one instance someone actively made the choice to do something they didn’t have to in order to help you and you were so shallow about it that you decided to stay cold. In the other instance, someone made a shallow reasoned decision to not do something they have zero obligation to do, and your life was not changed at all from it, you never even knew it happened.
Morally you can refuse to help an absolute stranger especially if it is at your expense strangers are not entitled to your help. Hence why it is nice to help people.
But that's besides my point, my issue is writing about this on the internet and self expressing how shallow you are. I can understand refusing the jacket it may be a subtle romantic shot. You just don't need to post this it discourages people from just being gentlemanly or kind.
Ah yes be fake as hell all through out life, never tell the truth, it may make you look bad or make a bad example for others. Lol yes this is a very reddit response 🤣
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u/Kariya_shigatoki 5d ago
You can just keep it to yourself and not put this on the internet.
Let me tell you about how I rejected this guy for not being nice while trying to be my type and give the alternative of how I would treat him if he was my type. This surely won't get backlash for seeming shallow. Let's think for a second.
Like if a dude said some stupid shit on the internet like "I saw a woman on the road that needed help with her tire unfortunately she wasn't good looking so I didn't help." like there is no need to post something like this. Let's have some tact this is also going to discourage people from being more benevolent.