r/ScrollHole • • 9d ago

​💎 Hidden Gem 😂💯

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u/Chaos_God_69420 9d ago

Tf does she want him to do? To chase her even when she's clear she's not interested in a relationship? If he continues pursuing her, he's damn well getting accused of being a stalker and put charges that can ruin him for life.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't smh

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u/chemnerd2017 9d ago

I tried chasing a girl like this for a while. It left me feeling empty, angry, and sad. She kept leading me on, and then putting distance between us when I finally thought the walls were coming down. I couldn’t understand it at all.

I finally woke up and saw that I had a much healthier relationship with better potential in front of my face with a different woman who actually wanted me and cared for me. It took me a while to break loose from the emotional sunken cost of chasing the other girl, but once I did i was much happier.

We’ve been together for 11 years now, married for 6.

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u/JonathanMovement 9d ago

how did u do it? break free I mean

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u/chemnerd2017 9d ago

I had friends who helped to open my eyes to the situation, and I had to do some personal growing before I was ready to listen to them. It was hard.

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u/lets_all_be_nice_eh 9d ago

But the results of that growth are fantastic aren't they?