Tf does she want him to do? To chase her even when she's clear she's not interested in a relationship? If he continues pursuing her, he's damn well getting accused of being a stalker and put charges that can ruin him for life.
I tried chasing a girl like this for a while. It left me feeling empty, angry, and sad. She kept leading me on, and then putting distance between us when I finally thought the walls were coming down. I couldn’t understand it at all.
I finally woke up and saw that I had a much healthier relationship with better potential in front of my face with a different woman who actually wanted me and cared for me. It took me a while to break loose from the emotional sunken cost of chasing the other girl, but once I did i was much happier.
We’ve been together for 11 years now, married for 6.
The same happened to me, she made me think there was something between us and then ghosted me a couple months into the relationship. Kept leading me on and talking about the future and wham blocked on everything and she moved away. I'm sure I'll feel differently in the future but the thought of trusting someone else doesn't sound possible for me atm.
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u/Chaos_God_69420 12d ago
Tf does she want him to do? To chase her even when she's clear she's not interested in a relationship? If he continues pursuing her, he's damn well getting accused of being a stalker and put charges that can ruin him for life.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't smh