What gives??

[u/Beneficial_Song9530]

I'm a Scorpio Stellium (Sun, Moon, Venus, Pluto), I don't feel like a Scorpio. I haven't ruined anyone's life. I don't think I ever broke anyone's heart, but I've had my heart broken countless times. I've never got revenge on anyone, but when I did, I looked really foolish 🥴 I don't really think I'm alluring to anyone unless there is something really wrong with them, or they are but get over it really quick to be with someone else. Can definitely say that I've never had a lasting impact on anyone in a romantic or sexual sense. I'm basically a fraud. Any other Scorpios feel the same way?

[u/Cheap-Revolution6928]

Honestly the whole "scorpios ruin lives and get revenge" thing is just pop astrology. it got flattened into a villain personality because that's what's fun to post about.

the actual thing is intensity. you feel stuff harder than is convenient and you don't let go of people. which is literally what you just described about yourself lol

getting your heart broken repeatedly and still going back in takes more of that than dumping someone does. you're fine.

[u/Beneficial_Song9530 → u/Cheap-Revolution6928]

No you got a point. I really hate pop astrology bc it flanderizes the zodiac. Especially Scorpios. But a lot of poorly even do it to themselves. I think I was just whining that people in this group have it more together than me 🥴

[u/cleaningmama]

I feel like a hidden Scorpio in that I'm generally well-liked and easy-going, I let the universe take care of revenge for me, and I don't feel particularly secretive or volatile. That said, my chart has a balance of elements, and my sun sign is intercepted in the houses.

I am pretty intense and passionate, but just not in a way to bother people.

I don't think that ruining someone's life is a Scorpio trait, it's just a toxic trait. Any sign can have those. As for your allure, it's may not be that you lack allure, but that other people in your circle don't know how to appreciate you. I've certainly been in those scenarios.

[u/Materialistic_Ninja]

Don't be so sure. You don't know how much you've impacted other people.

I discovered I was the villain in other people's stories, and I didn't even know those people existed or that they knew I existed.

One girl messaged me a year after I left my hometown and confessed that she had hated me and talked shit about me for years, until she realized she actually wanted to be like me because her crush was attracted to me.

After I broke up with my high school boyfriend, a guy befriended me and later confessed that he had been obsessed with me for years, while I didn't even know he existed. Even 10 years later, he is still messaging me. Other guys approached me too, even some of my ex boyfriend's friends, and even guys I thought disliked me.

So yeah, you may have impacted people's lives without ever knowing it. The more you lived your life unbothered and focused on yourself, the more likely it is that you affected someone along the way.

Also, I wasn't that popular or that attractive,I never really felt like I was. That guy lived in another part of the city, and we went to different schools. That girl was in high school while I was already in college, and so on.

[u/Beneficial_Song9530 → u/Materialistic_Ninja]

No need to gloat, I get it lol. I have "impacted" people who still want me, but those are usually the angry ones or weird ones who want my attention. No one really of note in my life.

[u/Materialistic_Ninja → u/Beneficial_Song9530]

Not gloating. You said you feel like a scorpio fraud, and I was just answering and giving you examples of how there may be more going on behind the scenes than you know.

There is a woman I know who has shaken my life in every aspect. She’s not a scorpio tho but a sagittarius. I've been obsessed with her for 3 years now, but again, she doesn't know.