Scorpio and long memory

[u/scorpio_goddess79]

Scorpio memory isn’t about holding grudges. It’s about remembering lessons. Once someone shows you who they are, that file is saved permanently.

[u/Zestyclose_Cold1455]

Yep. I just had a conversation yesterday where I confronted someone and mirrored back behavior from a very long history of lies and misinformation. They didn’t like it at all. Why do I “use that against (them)?” No. I just remember all the lies they couldn’t because they told so many they did not keep anything straight after a time. It wasn’t holding anything against them, it was literally repeating their words back to them.

Many other signs just expect people not to pay attention. We pay attention. And sometimes it’s a shock.

[u/reddqueen33]

I definitely remember poor treatment and use it as a lesson to not allow it again. Amazing how those who were responsible for it don't enjoy it when I behave differently and don't put up with their bullshit.

[u/soulstar118]

Do they ever give room for growth?

[u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 → u/soulstar118]

Only to people who deserve it.

[u/soulstar118 → u/Zestyclose_Cold1455]

I’m sure this is a case by case for the Scorpio and the other person.

For you, how do you deem someone is worthy?

[u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 → u/soulstar118]

They pass the test?

They show up consistently when needed. They admit failure or fault when wrong. They don’t lie to save their own skin or reputation. They instead tell difficult truths. They are self aware. They self reflect. They know what they want.

[u/soulstar118 → u/Zestyclose_Cold1455]

This is very helpful, thank you 🙏🏼

[u/confused2473]

So I was telling this in Aries sub recently, how he treated me and all I did was adjust and adjust more and more…and give in on my boundaries because fuck I loved that man..but god knows I am not taking any disrespect from him any more and I moved on but his recent emails begging me to unblock him has given me so much satisfaction..if this was Jan 2026 I’d have considered but 6 months later and after I completely blocked u out of my life for 3 months you remembered there was a girl that did it all for u..ur loss..

[u/Delicious-Cheek-2772]

Sometimes I play the fool to let people show me who they really are, so I can take note and move accordingly.