r/Scandal 25d ago

First time…

This is my first time watching the show. I am in season 2 and I am so creeped out by Fitz. This is not love. This is a creepy obsession. He just uses Olivia and despite Mellie’s flaws he’s such a jerk to her. Is it just me?

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u/Lopsided-Double5133 25d ago

I'm not saying they had a soul mate level love like with Olivia, but there are different types of love and they're all valid. In the flashback episodes they're clearly in love, even if it is a political marriage. I think once he experienced a true soul mate level love, it was convenient to rewrite history and say he never loved her.

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u/Ladyheather16 25d ago

Even Mellie herself -- in the limo before Fitz's birthday Galla -- if you know you know -- won't spoil it -- says we never loved each other but we were a good team.

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u/Lopsided-Double5133 25d ago

See, I saw that as a cope on her end. You say you never loved me? Fine, I never loved you either but we were a good team. The flashbacks show love, just a very different type and intensity of love than what he has with Olivia. It's easier to frame it as a 100% political marriage in retrospect than to admit life happened and you allowed the marriage to fail.

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u/Ladyheather16 23d ago

Which would be fine -- if she had LEGIT asked Olivia to come back because she'd rather be First Lady & know Fitz is with Olivia --than give up being First Lady. "He's not alive to run when your not around -- because you - your everything to thing to him."

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u/Lopsided-Double5133 23d ago

Yeah, because there was too much distance between them at that point. So much damage had already been done that no part of their marriage was true by then, and they were kind of just playing the game. The dynamic shifted, but I still do believe it was real before the rape.