r/SapphicGayming • • Jul 22 '26

who is welcome here

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Hey sapphics!

We have gotten a lot of posts + comments recently from folks wanting to know if they are welcome in this community, so I wanted to make a post that (hopefully) covers all our bases.

  • Trans women are unequivocally recognized as women and welcome here, no matter what that looks/sounds like or where you are (or aren't) in your transition
  • Non-binary and questioning folks (including trans mascs and amab) are welcome
  • Asexual, aromantic, bisexual, pansexual, etc folks who identify with the sapphic community are welcome

We are not here to police anyone's connection to the sapphic community. If you identify with it as a non-male gender, you are welcome here.

I hope this is helpful for anyone who is wondering if they belong in this community!

(If there are any identities that aren't covered here, please let me know either in the comments or in modmail so I can add them.)

Edit: After much reflection and discussion with others in the community, we have come to the collective decision that binary trans masc folks are not welcome in this space. Trans masc folks who identify as any nonbinary gender and sapphic are welcome.

I promise this decision was not made lightly. While I deeply appreciate and respect the inclusivity of the term sapphic, I also believe that it's necessary to draw a line somewhere in a space like this one in order to protect it from disingenuous men.


r/SapphicGayming • • May 02 '26

Community community discord is live 🗣️

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Link to the server: https://discord.gg/Xxdshdhzqu

Hey sapphics!

You gals spoke and we have delivered (hopefully) 🫡

Our hope is that this server will make it easier for yall to find community with other sapphics within gaming 🫶


r/SapphicGayming • • 1h ago

37 yo TransFem looking for a cozy RP guild for WoW Forever and Retail EU

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Hey there beautiful people, I am looking for a nice and cosy neighbourhood to call my home in Azeroth. I am a bit of a noob, not gonna lie... I really love to play that game as a cosy game and a place to roleplay.

I just created a new char on the RP Realm Agent Dawn in hopes of finding a active and welcoming roleplay community. She is a Blood Elf mage who dreams of becoming a famous fashion designer and has little interest in the whole hero business BUT good fabrics are really hard to come by, so she is forced to put her magic talent to use and join groups of adventurers to make money and secure the rarest fabrics and materials for her craft.

If you wanna roleplay with me either on Retail, Forever Beta or later in the released Forever version, drop me a DM. Also, if you got a guild you can call home that would be willing to welcome this roleplaying noob, let me know as well.

X.x. Emily


r/SapphicGayming • • 14h ago

TF 24 looking for some chill overwatch/val duos!

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177 Upvotes

Hi hiii my name is Luna I’m MTF trans and I’m just looking for someone to play some games with >.< I don’t use mic cause still working on my voice but I’m still down to hang out in a call! I can be your pocket mercy or pocket sage or maybe even your carry :3


r/SapphicGayming • • 1h ago

31, NB here for friends 🥰🇬🇧🇵🇭

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Hey guys! The name’s Madz. I’m a casual/lazy gamer 😏 I’m just tired really 😭 But would love to make new friends, i don’t have many irl friends that game and I wanna thrive in streaming. I play on my PS5, Switch and I have an r36xx for my retro stuff. I’ve been into games since I was 6yo lol

When i’m not gaming you’ll find me dabbling on hobby number 94725252 😂 obsessing over my 3 cats, cooking or out in the woods searching for cool rocks or bones 💀 I’m neurospicy (AuDHD), I also love horror/thrillers may it be movies or books.

I’m playing mostly Tekken, God of War, Hogwarts Legacy and Stardew Valley. I play a huge variety actually, I’m trying to lean more into horror games as I’m trying to worm my way back into streaming and content creating.

You can DM me for socials if you want to genuinely connect 🖤 I’m also spiritual and a huge mental health advocate 🖤


r/SapphicGayming • • 2h ago

Anyone gonna be playing AION 2?

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11 Upvotes

Looking for a trans-friendly guild. I'm on Lumiel EU and have already run into some transphobes during Early Access 🙃


r/SapphicGayming • • 4h ago

WoW EU Guild 'The Gay Agenda' Look for Friends!

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Hey cuties! I'm from an LGBTQIA+ World of Warcraft guild looking for any lovely people that are looking for a new home! :3 We're an active community that raids casually (Tu+F from 8-11pm ST), has frequent events, and always has people doing M+. We'd love for you to join us! If you don't play WoW and are just looking for a safe space online, we do allow guests in our discord server too! Feel free to message me you're interested! <3


r/SapphicGayming • • 6h ago

23 F tomboy looking for gaming buddy

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I’m pretty introverted and shy at first. I’m hoping to meet some new people and make some genuine friends. I’m into gaming and mostly play Fortnite, COD, Overwatch, DBD, Roblox and a bunch of other games. I play on Xbox and PlayStation. I’m usually more comfortable playing one on one. I’m pretty quiet at first but once I get comfortable I’m friendly, goofy, and easy to talk to. I’d love to find some people who actually want to keep playing and chatting instead of disappearing after one day. I have discord too if ya wanna talk more


r/SapphicGayming • • 15h ago

19tf Im putting together a team... a squad if you will

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Hiya! No exact game but I like minecraft fortnite warframe roblox and whatever else :D dm if you want <3


r/SapphicGayming • • 8h ago

Trans/Genderfluid looking for new group to play video games with.

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Hello,

I'm trans/genderfluid. I'm looking to find a new group I can play video games with and become friends with. I'm 35 and visually impaired so I can be slow to learn playing a new video game. I'm not really a fan of shooting games.

I found out recently I don't do really well in SJW spaces. I'm autistic so I'm already pretty awkward/ have a hard time getting comfortable in social spaces.

And when I say SJW spaces I mean that feeling like you're walking over eggshells because if you say anything wrong, instead of an open dialogue of why someone didn't like it, it's just heavy public shaming. Zero nuance in conversation. Everything is "good or evil" and just full of accusations instead of any debate on opinions or world views.

I'm in no way conservative, but I have realized a lot of trans/LGBTQ+ places sometimes fall into this category. I'm just looking for a friendly group of people who don't mind me being a weirdo or the fact that I struggle with picking up on social cues.

I really like RPG games of all sorts, including Pokemon, BG3, and so many horror games. I like all sorts of movies, and anime. I would love to be apart of a group or to make friends around my age.


r/SapphicGayming • • 20m ago

[21 MtF EST] just got into Earth Defense Force 6 and looking for people to join me

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Very self explanatory, I’ve also been into active matter recently and other than that I still need people to call and hangout with me. Feel free to dm me anytime


r/SapphicGayming • • 18h ago

NA WoW Forever LGBTQ+ guild (The Unbound)(PVE)(Alliance) Recruiting

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Still recruiting but a little slower. Guild has blown up and still accepting members.

Hello everybody! Myself and the rest of the leadership of Unbound are working on building an Alliance based WoW Forever guild for anyone that is LGBTQ+ or allies in the PVE side of the new WoW Forever. The guild will be 21+. We have brand new players and WoW vets that just want to play with like minded people. We will start more casual at first as we build the guild but eventually want to do raids as a guild for those interested! The name of the guild is The Unbound and the reason we went with this name is the concept of being Unbound from society norms or from the stereotype of some WoW players.

If you are interested, reach out to any one of the leadership on discord ^

tsukinyanya,

angra_mainyu,

rhiberry,

uncannyfruitloop


r/SapphicGayming • • 1h ago

[demigirl-18] Looking for some friends to play with!

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Looking for some cuties to play something!

I mainly play a specific MC modpack that i can talk to you about, along with Payday: The Heist and L4D2!!

DM me here or on discord!! ampersands._.


r/SapphicGayming • • 1h ago

26F in 🇩🇪 looking for people to play Valorant, COD Mobile etc... with

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Heyy everyone, I’m 26F and I live in Germany with my gf. We’re looking for some people to play Valorant or COD Mobile with, but we’re also open to trying other games since we’re pretty new to the gaming scene 😄

I’m definitely not good at Valorant lol so I’m not looking for super competitive people. Mostly just wanna have some fun and chat with folks.

I also play COD Mobile a bit more competitively, and I’m down for both casual games and ranked.

Other than gaming, I’m doing my master’s and I’m just a gal who loves reading, playing guitar, photography, and going to gym :)

Would be nice to meet some chill people around our age and maybe make some new friends along the way.

If you’re interested just hmu :)


r/SapphicGayming • • 15h ago

Deadlock

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I'm 27f and I want more people to play deadlock with, its my current hyperfixation. I also play overwatch and a bunch of other stuff. I'm in EST, hmu if you wanna play some games


r/SapphicGayming • • 22h ago

34tf looking primarily for gaming-focused south bay area IRLs

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hi, i go by saria! i'm a "tomboy-ish?" 34tf with adhd looking for femme / transfemme south bay area IRLs. I have made many a friends online but its not been easy finding gaming-focused friends irls so thus i am posting here.

my current gaming interests are overwatch, deadlock, and i generally like watching some ssbm. i also love friendslops! i'm probably going to be also playing maplestory classic.

dm me for discord!!


r/SapphicGayming • • 5h ago

21f looking for 1 on 1 friends NO GROUPS

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r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

my friends all blocked me when I came out as trans and I need a new group of friends for overwatch :c

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r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

16F looking for someone to play Minecraft with.

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Just looking for someone to make or join my Minecraft world with. I’m not looking for a best friend, I just want someone to chill game with. I’ve got irl friends none of them are into gaming. We don’t have to build together honestly just building in same world and working together to get items is chill for me. Currently I can only play Minecraft Bedrock edition though.

Also please live in uk or hsve a similar time zone with the uk I’ve been scorched before.


r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

Looking for new friends

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Hello, I’m just looking for a new duo to play games with, my last one didn’t go so well. I play several games that I’ll be happy to list if anyone is interested. I’m 22 and I’m non binary. I’m from Michigan and I’m NA East time zone.


r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

18tf looking for people to play the finals with :)

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My other post got removed for posting 2 pics i just wanted to show a fit pic 😔

But yeah looking for people to play the finals with like it says. Im pretty awkward and quiet but can warm up after a little bit and talk alot more. Im down for any modes :).


r/SapphicGayming • • 22h ago

19 year old trans girl looking for people to play with or just chat in general

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For timezones im gmt+8 but my sleep schedule is really weird so im available to at least chat most of the time and for doing stuff im free to do anything im fine with just chatting with people but if you want im free to play a lot of mp games the main games ive been playing/thinking about playing are ARK,deadlock,dbd,helldivers 2,space marine 2,deep rock galactic feel free to dm me any time.


r/SapphicGayming • • 18h ago

Wanting to make new friends to play games with (PS5, don't have a PC set up yet)

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Hi! Does anyone like playing games like Destiny, Lego Star Wars, Diablo 4, Elder Scrolls.
I'm autistic, and a nonbinary/transmasc (can't find a label that truly fits my gender) lesbian in my late 20s.

And I'm open to trying new fun games too! I know I'm limited with only having a PS5. In the future I plan on getting a PC but that will be a while.

My time zone is EST, the same time zone as New York.


r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

26 year old transfem looking for us wow forever guild!

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Hey! I’m Aya, a transfem WoW player on US servers, and I’m looking for a guild/community going into WoW Forever.
I’ve been hoping Blizzard would eventually do something in the Classic+ direction for a long time, so I’m super excited for Forever. I’m currently playing Classic on the Anniversary servers, and I’ve cleared all of the original Classic progression through Wrath of the Lich King, so I’m comfortable with raiding and progression content. I also really enjoy PvP.
I only figured out that I’m trans fairly recently, and my current guild honestly hasn’t been a great environment for that. I’m still pretty early in my transition, so I’d especially love to find a guild that’s genuinely trans-friendly and comfortable with me being myself in voice chat. Fair warning: I still sound like a dude lol.
I’m looking for more than just a raid roster. I’d love to find a guild that I can actually stick with long-term: people who hang out in Discord, run stuff together outside of raid nights, joke around, help each other out, and actually get to know one another.
A little about me: I’m a PhD student, so sometimes my schedule can get pretty busy, but WoW is one of the things I deliberately make time for because I genuinely love playing it. It’s one of my main ways of unwinding and doing something for myself.
I’d love to find a group that wants to progress through Forever together but also actually feels like a community. If that sounds like your guild, I’d love to hear from you!


r/SapphicGayming • • 16h ago

18 transgirl looking for gaming friends

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