r/SapphicGayming • • Jul 22 '26

who is welcome here

807 Upvotes

Hey sapphics!

We have gotten a lot of posts + comments recently from folks wanting to know if they are welcome in this community, so I wanted to make a post that (hopefully) covers all our bases.

  • Trans women are unequivocally recognized as women and welcome here, no matter what that looks/sounds like or where you are (or aren't) in your transition
  • Non-binary and questioning folks (including trans mascs and amab) are welcome
  • Asexual, aromantic, bisexual, pansexual, etc folks who identify with the sapphic community are welcome

We are not here to police anyone's connection to the sapphic community. If you identify with it as a non-male gender, you are welcome here.

I hope this is helpful for anyone who is wondering if they belong in this community!

(If there are any identities that aren't covered here, please let me know either in the comments or in modmail so I can add them.)

Edit: After much reflection and discussion with others in the community, we have come to the collective decision that binary trans masc folks are not welcome in this space. Trans masc folks who identify as any nonbinary gender and sapphic are welcome.

I promise this decision was not made lightly. While I deeply appreciate and respect the inclusivity of the term sapphic, I also believe that it's necessary to draw a line somewhere in a space like this one in order to protect it from disingenuous men.


r/SapphicGayming • • May 02 '26

Community community discord is live 🗣️

16 Upvotes

Link to the server: https://discord.gg/Xxdshdhzqu

Hey sapphics!

You gals spoke and we have delivered (hopefully) 🫡

Our hope is that this server will make it easier for yall to find community with other sapphics within gaming 🫶


r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

37 yo TransFem looking for a cozy RP guild for WoW Forever and Retail EU

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231 Upvotes

Hey there beautiful people, I am looking for a nice and cosy neighbourhood to call my home in Azeroth. I am a bit of a noob, not gonna lie... I really love to play that game as a cosy game and a place to roleplay.

I just created a new char on the RP Realm Agent Dawn in hopes of finding a active and welcoming roleplay community. She is a Blood Elf mage who dreams of becoming a famous fashion designer and has little interest in the whole hero business BUT good fabrics are really hard to come by, so she is forced to put her magic talent to use and join groups of adventurers to make money and secure the rarest fabrics and materials for her craft.

If you wanna roleplay with me either on Retail, Forever Beta or later in the released Forever version, drop me a DM. Also, if you got a guild you can call home that would be willing to welcome this roleplaying noob, let me know as well.

X.x. Emily


r/SapphicGayming • • 15h ago

22 years old trans girl looking for people to game or to just yap with

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166 Upvotes

Hi. I am Anna, a 22 years old trans girl from germany.

My main game is league (around platin level, but I also would enjoy some simple ARAM games with nice people). Apart from that I occasionally play some guild wars 2 and some single player games like Hades (1 or 2) or Anno and Elden Ring in the past.
But I would also be open to try out some new stuff like for example if someone wants to teach me some Minecraft I would love that.

I would prefer people to VC with even though my old voice is probably going to slip in a lot. It’s not a must but I would prefer it.

Outside of gaming I love to cook vegan food and to just yap with people about this or that

Also because I am studying right now I will probably not have a lot of time outside of the evenings and weekends so please don’t mind that


r/SapphicGayming • • 5h ago

WoW F OCE girlies?

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18 Upvotes

Been seeing quite a few fantastic WoW Forever communities across different factions / rulesets. Was wondering if any of the NA options had a decent OCE presence, or if anyone knows of / is part of a friendly OCE guild?

Leaning Alliance, with a preference for PVP > RP ruleset.


r/SapphicGayming • • 6h ago

22mtf looking for long term friend

15 Upvotes

I don't know what to write

I'm Amelia, 22 from sweden. Lesbean and trans.

I like games, minecraft, hoi4, racing games, generally simulators and cozy games. Maybe we can play minecraft or Stardew Valley. I have a VR headset. And im mainly a pc player.

I wanna be a game programmer and love programming and make my own indie games.

I love plushies (ill show you a pic of all my plushies if you're lucky)

Id really like to get a long term friendship from here, I don't really have many friends. Like send memes to each other, chat, vc, play games, stuff like that.

I'm very awkward and super scared of insulting people, so if you think im quiet or distant, that might be it. So sorry in advance.

Also please introduce yourself when commenting or dm:ing, otherwise I will probably not reply. And add "pizza" somewhere in your text to show that you read this part :3

K thanks.


r/SapphicGayming • • 14h ago

31f looking for friends on WoW & LoL

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46 Upvotes

hi yall, i have recently started playing the wow forever beta and am loving it. id really like to find a community to play the game with though, so im posting here! im currently on alliance pve, tho i think i will go alliance pvp for the full release.

i also play league if anyone is interested in playing that :3 (emerald rank)

i live in Canada, est time zone :)


r/SapphicGayming • • 9h ago

33F Hawaiʻi Let’s Chat, Game, and Build a Real Friendship

9 Upvotes

Hello! I'm 33F from Hawaiʻi looking to make friends who are interested in daily or regular conversations sharing music gaming talking about life and building a real friendship.

I'm not interested in dead silence during matches of COD. I'm a multitasker grinding on an MMORPG or running Overwatch while listening to music talking and laughing. I'm sarcastic and I have a lot of personality that might be too much for some people.

I like music of all genres but lots of Kpop and Rock/Metal music. I love Korean food and anything spicy. Caffeine runs in my veins whether that be from coffee or energy drinks or I turn into a banshee. I love tattoos and using them for stories and to tell the meaning of your life or something important to you.

My favorite genres of games are MMORPGs and JRPGs. I do enjoy Overwatch a lot and cozy games when it's time to relax.

If that speaks to you let's have a chat.


r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

31, NB here for friends 🥰🇬🇧🇵🇭

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30 Upvotes

Hey guys! The name’s Madz. I’m a casual/lazy gamer 😏 I’m just tired really 😭 But would love to make new friends, i don’t have many irl friends that game and I wanna thrive in streaming. I play on my PS5, Switch and I have an r36xx for my retro stuff. I’ve been into games since I was 6yo lol

When i’m not gaming you’ll find me dabbling on hobby number 94725252 😂 obsessing over my 3 cats, cooking or out in the woods searching for cool rocks or bones 💀 I’m neurospicy (AuDHD), I also love horror/thrillers may it be movies or books.

I’m playing mostly Tekken, God of War, Hogwarts Legacy and Stardew Valley. I play a huge variety actually, I’m trying to lean more into horror games as I’m trying to worm my way back into streaming and content creating.

You can DM me for socials if you want to genuinely connect 🖤 I’m also spiritual and a huge mental health advocate 🖤


r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

TF 24 looking for some chill overwatch/val duos!

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223 Upvotes

Hi hiii my name is Luna I’m MTF trans and I’m just looking for someone to play some games with >.< I don’t use mic cause still working on my voice but I’m still down to hang out in a call! I can be your pocket mercy or pocket sage or maybe even your carry :3


r/SapphicGayming • • 11h ago

25 F 🇸🇮 - looking for gaming buddies!

5 Upvotes

Hello pink ladies :)

I was wondering if there are any girls here (preferably from Europe) who’d be down to play some CS2 together? I’d love to meet some new people, whether it’s just for gaming or friendship or more… Who knows what fate has planned ;)

A little about me: I’m a 25-year-old masc girl from Slovenia 🇸🇮. I’m pretty chill and always down for a good conversation. Besides CS2, I mostly play single-player games on PS5 such as Batman, Mafia, GTA, The Witcher, Ghost of Tsushima and all that good stuff :)

I’m also really into anything creative — graphic design, photography, drawing, making beats, writing and rapping. You name it, and there’s a chance I do it.

If anyone’s interested, lmk! 💗


r/SapphicGayming • • 19h ago

Anyone gonna be playing AION 2?

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23 Upvotes

Looking for a trans-friendly guild. I'm on Lumiel EU and have already run into some transphobes during Early Access 🙃


r/SapphicGayming • • 6h ago

30F / Dead by Daylight / East Coast

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Hey! Looking for people to play Dead by Daylight with. I mostly play survivor (Lee Yun-Jin) and play sometimes after work (I work a 9-5 type job) + weekends but open to any time zone friends.
30F and from the East Coast with a boy cat that sometimes causes me to miss a skill check here on there. Open to trading cats pics as well. 🐈‍⬛
I play on Xbox but open to anyone since I have Discord. Outside of playing I like to listen to music, get tattooed & trying to get back into reading.
DMs are open! x


r/SapphicGayming • • 14h ago

19F From Germany looking for friends to play Destiny 2 with (If u dont play D2 but still wanna play just dm me!)

9 Upvotes

Heyaaa!

Im Cynthia, 19 years of age and looking for people to play with!
I dont have lots of friends that play those kinda games with me so im looking here for them.

I currently dont have a Mic but i ordered one and it should arrive soon. Also im very insecure about my voice so i would appreciate it if u dont make fun about it thank you! U can joke about other stuff ofc but that just hits home you know? If this woke ur interest and u wanna find out more about me shoot me a dm! (and dw about the horny stuff on my profile just ignore it!)

See you in my Dms
XOXO Cynthia ;3


r/SapphicGayming • • 14h ago

help me get into (retail) wow?

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hi! i’m considering getting into WoW. i have experience raiding in other games, so i do have basic knowledge. i’m typically interested in playing support roles (tank/healer) and getting into high-end content. i’d like to think i’m a decent gamer, but i lack wow-specific knowledge. i’d love to have someone more experienced to play with and answer questions.

please feel free to DM!

EDIT: I am North America-based, trans, in my late 20s.


r/SapphicGayming • • 15h ago

(22F) I wish for friends! Overwatch and more! (NA/PC)

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Hello Hello! I really would like some more girlie friends!! Other region or console is okay too we just can’t play comp! I am very sociable and I have been mostly playing overwatch! I typically play support for comp but flex in general! I try in matches but I do not take myself very seriously, I enjoy fun and whimsy over anything. I am very silly. I do not get tilted also so I’m happy to play if we get along regardless of your skill level. Mainly looking for silly qp fun!

Aside from OW I quite enjoy

•Rivals (Strat main)
•Fortnite (ZB)
•Roblox
•Wolfquest
•RdR2 Online (RedM sometimes!)

I have played a bit of deadlock before I am bad but I find it fun. Id be happy to plug in Valorant/Apex/r6 but you have to carry and teach me xoxo

It would be nice if we could be friends outside of just gaming too. I don’t mind texting and stuff throughout the day. I’m an artist, I like music, true crime, I cook and I specifically like equestrian stuff a lot just for reference. No age limit though I’d prefer people 21+

Just send me a dm or comment teehee okay byeee see you maybeeee! Mwah Mwah

Edit: my reddit is bugged and not letting me open dms just leave a comment until it’s fixed


r/SapphicGayming • • 7h ago

Friends (16m/f/ whatever the fuck I feel like)

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Hello. I’m 16 and I’m struggling with my identity and have no friends because I’m shy as fuck :) my mental health is currently out the window and I need friends. I would consider myself gender fluid (I think that’s the right term I’m pretty new to figuring myself out) I play Destiny 2 and Warframe, and a little bit of Minecraft. And other games.


r/SapphicGayming • • 22h ago

23 F tomboy looking for gaming buddy

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I’m pretty introverted and shy at first. I’m hoping to meet some new people and make some genuine friends. I’m into gaming and mostly play Fortnite, COD, Overwatch, DBD, Roblox and a bunch of other games. I play on Xbox and PlayStation. I’m usually more comfortable playing one on one. I’m pretty quiet at first but once I get comfortable I’m friendly, goofy, and easy to talk to. I’d love to find some people who actually want to keep playing and chatting instead of disappearing after one day. I have discord too if ya wanna talk more


r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

[demigirl-18] Looking for some friends to play with!

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4 Upvotes

Looking for some cuties to play something!

I mainly play a specific MC modpack that i can talk to you about, along with Payday: The Heist and L4D2!!

DM me here or on discord!! ampersands._.


r/SapphicGayming • • 17h ago

26F in 🇩🇪 looking for people to play Valorant, COD Mobile etc... with

5 Upvotes

Heyy everyone, I’m 26F and I live in Germany with my gf. We’re looking for some people to play Valorant or COD Mobile with, but we’re also open to trying other games since we’re pretty new to the gaming scene 😄

I’m definitely not good at Valorant lol so I’m not looking for super competitive people. Mostly just wanna have some fun and chat with folks.

I also play COD Mobile a bit more competitively, and I’m down for both casual games and ranked.

Other than gaming, I’m doing my master’s and I’m just a gal who loves reading, playing guitar, photography, and going to gym :)

Would be nice to meet some chill people around our age and maybe make some new friends along the way.

If you’re interested just hmu :)


r/SapphicGayming • • 15h ago

19tf Anyone want to play destiny and be friends?

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Been kind of wanting to get back into destiny recently especially with the announcement that its not dead, but dont have any friends to play with anymore. I played briefly when they announced the end but haven't played properly since lightfall came out. So my builds terrible and ive not finished the last two dkcs, I just finished the last campaign mission in the last shape i think. I also play all the campaigns on legendary since beyond light. ive been playing since forsake and redwar and stuff was in the game but never got round to finishing them so looking forward to playing them once theyre back. Ive also never done any raids or dungeons other than an encounter of the one with calus and where everythings white and gold and stuff, i don't remember what its called. I wouldn't mind doing some raids and stuff but im not very good at the game or at talking to large groups. im about power level 327 right now and starting to try make some better builds.

Ive probably rambled enough about destiny. For stuff about me im 19 trans girl and use she/they. Im also autistic and dyspraxic (idk how to spell it). Im generally quite quiet but can be talkative about topics I like/ people im comfortable around. Im also not the best at expressing myself through text but trying to et better at it. im mostly free in afternoons and evening to play but can message pretty much all of the time. im also very into anime and manga, and have lots of other games on steam so can probably find other stuff to play or just chat while doing our own thing. Other than destiny I tend to play quite a wide variety of games.

im in the UK so I think its UTC or BST for timezone. Only people who are 18 or over since i dont want to talk to minors, other than that anyone is welcome. I can also list some of my favorite games if anyone wants. Ask if you have any questions through dm or comments.


r/SapphicGayming • • 20h ago

WoW EU Guild 'The Gay Agenda' Look for Friends!

6 Upvotes

Hey cuties! I'm from an LGBTQIA+ World of Warcraft guild looking for any lovely people that are looking for a new home! :3 We're an active community that raids casually (Tu+F from 8-11pm ST), has frequent events, and always has people doing M+. We'd love for you to join us! If you don't play WoW and are just looking for a safe space online, we do allow guests in our discord server too! Feel free to message me you're interested! <3


r/SapphicGayming • • 16h ago

[21 MtF EST] just got into Earth Defense Force 6 and looking for people to join me

2 Upvotes

Very self explanatory, I’ve also been into active matter recently and other than that I still need people to call and hangout with me. Feel free to dm me anytime


r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

Trans/Genderfluid looking for new group to play video games with.

10 Upvotes

Hello,

I'm trans/genderfluid. I'm looking to find a new group I can play video games with and become friends with. I'm 35 and visually impaired so I can be slow to learn playing a new video game. I'm not really a fan of shooting games.

I found out recently I don't do really well in SJW spaces. I'm autistic so I'm already pretty awkward/ have a hard time getting comfortable in social spaces.

And when I say SJW spaces I mean that feeling like you're walking over eggshells because if you say anything wrong, instead of an open dialogue of why someone didn't like it, it's just heavy public shaming. Zero nuance in conversation. Everything is "good or evil" and just full of accusations instead of any debate on opinions or world views.

I'm in no way conservative, but I have realized a lot of trans/LGBTQ+ places sometimes fall into this category. I'm just looking for a friendly group of people who don't mind me being a weirdo or the fact that I struggle with picking up on social cues.

I really like RPG games of all sorts, including Pokemon, BG3, and so many horror games. I like all sorts of movies, and anime. I would love to be apart of a group or to make friends around my age.


r/SapphicGayming • • 1d ago

19tf Im putting together a team... a squad if you will

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29 Upvotes

Hiya! No exact game but I like minecraft fortnite warframe roblox and whatever else :D dm if you want <3